Okay.....my friend that was a boy, i planned to ask him out then that morning he was involved in a car-diesel accident and unfortunatly he was in the car.........and is it weird for me to still have feelings for him??.........this happened a month ago but i think i am going to need some time to get over him............so if u knw me would you think i was weird for still having feelings for him?? Please no dumb remarks i am serious and i really miss him.......
2007-12-30 06:07:30 · 17 answers · asked by Me 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Diesel-Car(saturn) no he didnt make it! : (
and i really miss him
2007-12-30 06:14:11 · update #1
No of course thats not weird! If a parent of yours dies, you will still love them and have feelings for them wont you? So why would it be different for a good friend? It will probably hurt for a while, but after a few months it will be easier.
2007-12-30 06:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by RY14 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No why would it be weird? It takes a lot of time to forget someone that is very dear to us.
Hey, you didn't tell us..so what happened to him in the accident? Is he alive? If he is..then maybe he'll be back in school so you don't need to get over him.
2007-12-30 14:11:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse you are not beguing werid. I think thats normal. Maybe you feel guilty i didnt tell him earlier. I bet if you talk to some friend it might even make you feel better. Havent you ever noticed when talk things out its like a huge weight lifted off your shoulders. I am sorry that he didn't make it .
2007-12-30 15:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by Hypercutie_2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not weird for having the same feelings for that guy! I'm so sorry about what happened to him. at least, he's in a better place. It's really hard to forget someone especially that! don't worry! Hang in there. *Hugs* It's okay.
-ConfusedGirlForever *(Diane N)*
2007-12-30 14:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by ♫Di [Pro-Love, Anti-Hate]♫ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Not at all. You liked the guy, and wanted to ask him out...and hope it possibly went somewhere in the future(relationship etc), so it's not weird that you still like the guy you thought he was. You'll get over him. IT takes time. IT'll help that he's not around so it'll be outta sight, outta mind. But if you really miss him, then do what you think is best to greive and let him go. I'm sorry for your loss. Good luck.
2007-12-31 21:38:32 · answer #5 · answered by Uncertain Soul 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm truly sorry for your lost. To answer your question, no it is not weird at all. It would be weird if you didn't miss him.
It may take some time, but time is a great healer.
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2007-12-30 14:23:51 · answer #6 · answered by Nola 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't think it's weird, but it will fade over time. You cannot just turn off feelings like a light-switch, no matter what happened. Hang in there. :o)
2007-12-30 14:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mary , she said he was dea ok ? Now to answer ur question . IT IS ABSOLUTELY NOT WEIRD . Like the quote says " You never realize what u have until it's gone " 2 bad u didn't ask him b4 , it would've been less hurtful .
2007-12-30 14:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Miss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your weird for still having feelings for him
Yes, sooner or later you will get over him but No, it's not weird for having feelings for him :]
Hope I helped :]
2007-12-30 14:11:49 · answer #9 · answered by Klaudia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly...
you`re weird for thinking that`s weird.
it`s totally normal and makes perfect sense sweetie.
2007-12-30 15:14:41 · answer #10 · answered by ale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋