Everytime i pray about my marriage and husband I havethis dream of him cheating on me . Could this be a sign . It has happened 2-3 times now when I have specificly asked God to help me be strong and help me know weither I need to stay or leave .
2007-12-30 04:57:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I know he hasen't yet but i was just wondering if it is a sign that he will . I do try to communicate with him he doesn't listen to me or th kids needs . never has new years day we will be marired for 5 years nad have 3 kids together and hehas 2 kids from a prior marriage .
2007-12-30 05:05:43 · update #1
God might be trying to tell u something try and watch ur husband keep an eye on him if he is you will find out but dont let your husband know ur watching
2007-12-30 05:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The only clear information you are getting from this recurring sequence of events is that YOU are worried about him cheating.
Lots of people imagine problems that aren't really there. On the other hand, lots of people sense problems without being able to explain why. The only person who has any chance of figuring out which is your case is you.
Lots of people also think they are getting messages from God when in fact they are dreaming them up themselves, so I don't think that praying about something you are worried about and then having a related dream is really evidence. (It could also be wishful thinking, if you are really looking for an excuse to leave your husband and therefore dreaming up the obvious one.)
You are clearly seeing some kind of problem with your marriage. Maybe you should take a step back and think about the problems for which you do have sufficient information. Although I am not a fan of divorce, it takes two to keep a marriage working, and he might not be willing to make the effort (whether or not he is cheating).
I suggest you focus less on him, and more on who you want to be. That means having the self-respect not to stay in a marriage if your husband has already abandoned his commitment (even if he is NOT cheating). But it also means having the self-respect to make an honest effort to stay committed, if it's possible to make it work. Every marriage does go through some rough patches, and the biggest danger is choosing divorce because it's the easy path.
But if it's about you, and who you want to be as a person (and as a Christian), you may be able to choose the best rather than the easiest path.
If you are being abused or endangered, get away as quickly as you can! Otherwise, try to assess this situation honestly, and when you are sure of your own basis, try to discuss the problems with your husband (again, assuming that isn't dangerous). If he just won't pay any attention, that might mean he is no longer committed to the marriage, but allow the possibility that he might just be scared of losing you.
In a Christian marriage, you both owe it to each other to try to fulfill your commitments, and that does require honest communication with each other and honest self-examination. Dreams may indicate a problem, but they're more likely to show where you'd like the problem to be than where it really is.
2007-12-30 13:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Samwise 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God wants your marriage to last. I don't think that He would give you a dream that your husband is cheating on you. Pray for wisdom. You could just be dreaming about something that you don't want to happen instead of what probably isn't happening. One wrong word said at the wrong time could start trouble over something that might not be happening.
2007-12-30 13:10:31 · answer #3 · answered by guitarrman45 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a case of virtual cheating, God won't have an answer
2007-12-30 13:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by LEMUR is fruit perfection? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may or not be a sign. Look for other signs. If he is cheating he will be caught eventually. God bless.
2007-12-30 13:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by tabbycat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurities are reflected in your dreams. Judging someone, based upon your insecurities, is unfair. Why would you have married someone you seemingly distrust?
2007-12-30 13:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should communicate with your husband. God does work in mysterious ways.
2007-12-30 13:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by JazzyG 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Could be a sign, could be the Devil- could be you're really suspicious, or that maybe you're picking up something that he's thinking, but possibly not acting on.
2007-12-30 13:04:33 · answer #8 · answered by REX 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I do not think a burning bush would be quite so clear. Make sure you check it out. Our flesh can be tricky.
2007-12-30 13:02:28 · answer #9 · answered by Bye Bye 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That dream means you fear that he may cheat on you. You need to be mor confident.
2007-12-30 13:12:38 · answer #10 · answered by truly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋