ok so heres the thing... in middle school i was almost in love with this girl... we were best friends and we had such close personalities, We had everything in common and would talk so much... then i started to fall for her, but being a dumb kid i got confused and turned her down the first time but we remained friends then it was my turn... i asked her out and it became middle school puppy love, then things turned bad... she would say i liked us better as friends and she started to drift away from me to a group of other guys that would tease and make fun of me...we all moved on to high school and she has given me mixed signals over the years wanting to see me then acting wierd, i STILL after 5 years am in love with this girl.... Heres the dream(its short) i only remeber being at a ski mountain (bad things between me and her happened there) then her best friend ran up to me and told me that she loves a brown eyed boy.. me ... i was so happy but i woke up and it was over and she didnt
2007-12-30 00:57:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
Given the background that you've provided, the meaning of this dream seems pretty clear:
You miss this girl and want to get back together with her. The dream is a form of wish-fulfillment, a dramatization of a fantasy that you may or may not have already worked through in your conscious mind. Your subconscious mind in effect is trying this on for size, seeing what it would really feel like for her to reciprocate your feelings.
This kind of dream is perfectly normal; I've had some variation of it a dozen times through the years. My advice: enjoy the dreams as best you can! Dreams are a fantastic emotional outlet and should be cherished. (Aside from the nightmares, of course...)
2007-12-30 05:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Perpetua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, dear....well puppy love is really confusing, I wish there were a cure for it...It gets confusing because you start off as being good friends, and then when the L word comes into it, and you start being an item, the other kids around you aren't mature enough to deal with it, and you get a lot of pressure from the other kids, and a lot of teasing, if I can remember correctly from my first relationship of that sort, there was sexual pressure from peers wanting to know if we were "doing it", and also crude remarks from peers like "did the rabbit die" and things like that. (we'd never even kissed! just holding hands was a big deal in middle school!) Of course you and the girl involved aren't ready for that sort of stuff, and mostly what you're ready for is just the emotional closeness of being together on a higher level than "just friends" but neither you or the kids around you are emotionally mature enough, and they wind up causing problems for the friendship with all the teasing, they may be curious, they may be jealous, or they may just be that immature. In my situation the boy moved away after we broke up, but we got back in touch and dated a little here and there later on, once he had moved away we didn't have the pressures of our classmates being so snotty...we ultimately moved on in our lives to other people, but 30 years later we still keep in touch as "just friends". I don't know what to tell you to do, maybe you should just try to let it go for awhile, date some other girls and just try to get past the awkwardness, maybe if you just back off all together for awhile, you can try to be friends with her later, if you give her some space, and give everyone around you a chance to "grow up" and become a little more mature and secure in themselves.... Keep in touch with her, and maybe you can get to know her again after you graduate, and you're not under the scrutiny and pressure of your classmates. I think your dream is mainly wishful thinking. Good luck to you, and I hope it works out....
2007-12-30 02:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream should neither make you sad nor happy. Dream is a fulfillment. When you find the going tough in some course, you find it easier to do in a dream. It's a fundamental established by none other than Sigmund Freud, who is the father of psychoanalysis and Dream Interpretation.
Here, you want the girl to love you and that wish is fulfilled in your dream and that too, it was revealed by another aggressive guy, who dragged the girl away from you. That was your wish and you got it fulfilled in your dream.
2007-12-30 01:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This just means you've been thinking of her and this pre-empted relationship too much that it has affected your subconscious.
2007-12-30 03:30:07 · answer #4 · answered by reg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what's the question?
2007-12-30 01:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by awg_umar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋