I just found out my future brother-in-law's fiancee is pregnant. First I was irritated that they're even a couple still - they broke up for a year and they do not have what I would call a "solid" relationship. As a matter of fact about 3-4 months ago she OD'd herself after a fight (and not on purpose, just out of stupidity!) I just found out a week ago that she had a miscarriage, but then find out this week that was wrong and she is, in fact, pregnant. Apparently they have been trying even though they are not married, and she wasn't even living with him at the time when they decided to try starting (she had moved out). She's a smoker and a drinker, and it seemed like she had no problem finding out she had miscarried since she had several beers at the X-mas party.....
I'm irritated because I don't think this is a good thing, and yes I know it's not my business and I have no control over it, but it still bugs me....
2007-12-30 00:55:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Uh, no, not my sister.... No one in my family is that trashy. FUTURE - my fiancee's brother's fiancee.... got it?
2007-12-30 01:07:37 · update #1
future brother-in-law's fiancee is pregnant
Isn't that your sister?
2007-12-30 01:03:28 · answer #1 · answered by Mr R 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Kinda takes away from your own drama doesn't it? Steals your thunder? Family focusing on them and not your and your fiance?
Ok, you know all this, and you can pretty well see the future, life will always be a drama with this person and apparently your future brother in law is a complete idiot. Imagine how your fiance feels, this bozo is his brother.
You can't control it, its none of your business, just live your life.
2007-12-30 09:09:18 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow what a mess huh?
How does your finance and his family think of this? I agree with you this is not a good thing and you can only hope that they will do the best for the baby.
I hope that you can find it in your heat to be a role model for her,let her see how they should be in a relationship and maybe that will be a start of things getting better for them regardless if they get married or not.
2007-12-30 10:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by sammy3256 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are their own worst enemy. Your future SIL proves that.
2007-12-30 10:16:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it might be the right time to kick em to the curb, i think.
2007-12-30 11:46:46 · answer #5 · answered by panamarandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋