Even if you know its wrong, or wont happen, or cant happen why is it so hard to make yourself stop looking?
Am I the only one here?
2007-12-29 23:19:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why is it so wrong? It's wrong if you cheat or steal or lie or despise etc... but if you just look at someone who is attractive I think it' s part of this comedy. There are so many beautiful flowers in this garden why shouln't we see that they are beautiful? However, you cannot love but one or some, never many at the same time. It woud be of a bad taste. Later.
2007-12-29 23:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by rakestake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to stop looking at them because people tend to get the idea that just because a person is attractive, they're entitled to have them. The fact that they can't have them thus makes it hard or impossible (at the time) to stop looking at/thinking about them because it becomes "something I can never have, but something I will always want". People just need to realize that they cannot have everything they want.
2007-12-30 07:24:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand to some point. When i was younger, I had the same thing going. There is no harm in looking unless you either get caught or you do it in a creepy way.
You're not alone on this one.
If she's hot (i'm assuming it's a woman), then SHE'S HOT! There's nothing you can do about it! You are a human being.
2007-12-30 07:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone, why worry about it ... being attracted to someone, even if it can't work, is the spice of life - you only want to worry when you stop finding people attractive.
2007-12-30 07:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by chugalugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg I totally know where you're coming from. I don't really know why you just have to look at that someone that you find attractive. Maybe we're just fantasising about being with that someone that we find so attractive ...?
2007-12-30 07:23:16 · answer #5 · answered by bubble wrapping 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhh i dont think its hard
i find it kind of hard when you like someone so much but you cant stop thinking about them only when your not doing anything constuctive
just try to stay busy or something
2007-12-30 07:22:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because that someone had this certain magnet that you can't stop looking at that someone, you found something that as an apple in your eyes
2007-12-30 07:33:18 · answer #7 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe cuz you admire them.when you admire someone cuz of their looks or maybe cuz their attitude,that dosent seem wrong at all unless you go crazy and do something to make them like you too:]
2007-12-30 07:32:34 · answer #8 · answered by creAmo6k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because there so dayyyyyyum fine. ahaha its only natural mate dont worry about it
2007-12-30 07:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by zoeee1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha cause you wanna pounce on them, nothin to worry about, its in mens DNA,
2007-12-30 07:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by Andrew Western 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋