i feel cheated because after i initiated the break with my ex, he went to find his ex gf. the lady just called a few days ago saying that my ex keep wanting the both of them to patch and quickly get married. but the lady isn't sure if he is saying all these because he is confused or what.
I don't understand why he can treat as though nothing had happened between us and want to get married with the lady. they've not officially patched because the lady wasn't sure what to do. I believe that he was serious with me when we were together.
What should I do?
2007-12-29 23:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by flwergirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
forget him
2007-12-29 23:06:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you broke up with the guy. He went back to where he KNOWS he won't be 'rejected'. He went back to where he knows the 'territory' already. Why should it bother you? He is just in need of comfort. Who better to give it to him than his x gf?
But it seems you still have feelings for the guy since you feel cheated. Isn't it weird how no one wants something when it is not taken but as soon as someone else takes it, EVERYONE wants it!? If you still have feelings for the guy, then talk it out with him. You have nothing to lose, just tell him how you're feeling. Then take it from there.
2007-12-29 23:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone, the point is HE WENT TO SOMEONE ELSE,when the two of you broke up, indicating that you dont mean much to him and it doesnt take long for him to move on, which is what you should do, dont worry about him, shoot, you do the same thing and show him that you dont need him either. Dont be there for him when he wants to change his mind again apparently no, the two of you were not serious, not in his eyes, you were just something for him to fall on until he missed his first gf.
2007-12-29 23:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by I DONT CARE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont love him anymore then find someone who is decent enough for you,,if he wants to get back to the lady, then leave him with hes decisions, if he's just using the lady to get back to you, then its not fair to use other persons as bait
2007-12-29 23:11:59 · answer #4 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Find someone that doesn't think about his ex...you deserve better.
2007-12-29 23:06:08 · answer #5 · answered by sublime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not cheated
he just moved on fast,very fast
let him be who is he to deserve u anyway
its hisl oss
2007-12-29 23:11:12 · answer #6 · answered by spongebob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you break up with him now youre angry he is moving on?
2007-12-29 23:08:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋