This has to be one of the most destructive expressions I've ever heard.
What kind of lesson is it exactly?
don't try to be good or you could get in trouble?
It is often used to chastise a child for some careless act , not properly thought out.
But the repercussions later, tend to make people think twice about doing good deeds for fear of reprisal if they are not appreciated. Malpractise laws have made real doctors shy away from lifesaving efforts for this exact reason.
Yes, you should think things through if they will impact others. and yes some people ARE ungrateful....
it is always those people who will use that expression rather than try to appreciate the thought behind a genuinely good act, usually because it interferes with their own private (often sinister) interests.
lets stop saying it altogether
2007-12-29
22:59:19
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