well my bf wants me 2 have sex with him but the problem is, is that im not sher if im ready cuz im only 13 and hes 16, we have only bin 2gether 4 three and a hafe mounts what should i do???
2007-12-29 22:52:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good grief--you still use baby talk! Tell him you're not ready. He's too old for you anyway.
2007-12-29 22:56:47 · answer #1 · answered by Alice K 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're not sure that your not ready, then you know this isn't what you really want so don't even consider going there. Three and a half months together? You hardly know him! This guy doesn't care about you and is using you! When he gets what he wants and is done with you, he'll find some lame excuse to dump you and you'll be forgotten. Don't be pressured by him and cave in to his phony sweet talk and lies. You'll end up regretting it so tell him to back off and leave you alone.
2007-12-29 23:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here is the scenario. You say yes, you have sex, and he dumps you the next day after telling all his friends how he "did"you. Do you really want all that? Other scenario. You don't have sex, he breaks up with you because of that...at least you still have your dignity, and you won't be having a baby at 14! Think about it...long and hard before you do anything you will regret.
2007-12-29 23:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's definitely a big problem, if you think you're not ready than you aren't ready especially if you have doubts. Tell him no and if he respects you he'll accept it, if he keeps pressuring you than you know he just wants sex and sex only. Don't let him pressure you or make you feel guilty and definitely don't do it if he uses 'If you love me you would....'
You do what you feel comfortable doing. If you know you aren't ready than you aren't. And 13 is a young age and your 16 yr old boyfriend should know that as well.
2007-12-29 23:17:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you are too young to be doing that. What if you get pregnant? Are you emotionally ready to handle another baby? What would your parents say? What about your schooling? Also, are you sure that your bf loves you so much that if you get pregnant he will be willing to support you? What if you and your boyfriend break up? Sex will make you so emotionally vulnerable and you might not get over him that easily.
I say not to do it. It is too early in your life to be suffering the consequences of sex and possibly the consequences of having a baby if you get pregnant.
2007-12-29 23:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by bellisima 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should just tell him no, you are far too young for sex. I think you should wait until you are at least 16 and on birth control because condoms don't always work. Don't let anyone pressure you into sex, its a very big thing and you should wait until you are truly deeply in love believe me its so much better.Good luck.
2007-12-29 22:58:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jenniferann88 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u are to young to even be thinking about sex let alone considering it if ur bf loves u that much he will wait till the right age which is 16 and when u are ready
2007-12-29 23:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 21:10:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, has he asked you?
or demanded from you?
im not here to critisize you because i know how you feel. Nobody here can make your decision but we can advise, and personally i would say if your not completely sure if your ready, then you shouldnt do it. Age does not matter if you love the person.
You should just let him know that its not because you dont love him, its that you dont feel ready to commit to something that big just yet. He should appreciate your maturity. If not then hes just not worth it.
2007-12-29 23:09:06 · answer #9 · answered by zoeee1234 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like hes only going out with you because he wants one thing. Sorry but its the truth! Do NOT have sex with him, if he really loves you he will wait for you. You are underage and he could go to prison for having sex with you. And what happens if you get pregnant! What are you gonna do then ay??
2007-12-29 22:59:35 · answer #10 · answered by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be pressured. If you are not sure then tell him you don't think you want to. If he still wants to be your bf then he will respect your decision to wait. 13 is pretty young to be having sex so make sure you know what you are letting yourself in for and if you do then make sure you use protection
2007-12-29 23:01:25 · answer #11 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋