I've only been seeing this guy for over a week now, although I've known him for twice as long.
Things seemed to be going well, he texted often and was open with his feelings, saying things like "I'm so glad I met you", "I can't wait to see you" and "that makes me feel pretty happy now" when I reciprocated.
I went away for the weekend which he knew, but then he didn't contact me all of Friday. On Saturday night I sent a casual "hope you're having a good weekend" text which he never replied to! This is completely out of character for him as he has always replied within the hour up until now.
We are meant to be meeting today (Sunday) but he hasn't been in touch since Thursday now! I don't know if I've been dumped via the silent treatment or if I'm just being paranoid!
Things were going so well and he seemed smitten, saying that he couln't wait to see me next. What has changed in 3 days?! I don't wanna harrass him but I'd like to know! He's 32 by the way so no teenage boy!
2007-12-29 22:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've been to his place (nothing happened, we just watched a DVD cos I told him didn't want to jump into anything too intimate and he was very sweet & respectful of that) which he shares with flatmates.
I think I can safely say that he's not married or anything, but yeah something looks suspicious if he's suddenly ceased all contact!
2007-12-29 22:32:36 · update #1
why dont you call him? dont moan at him when he answers just say something like hi are we still meeting up today? if you have been dumped then hes a horrid guy and a coward, it could be his fone has been playing up or he has has a family problem dont jump to conclusions as him if he is ok.
2007-12-29 22:20:04 · answer #1 · answered by Crissie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he could be a bit of player to me. To some guys, the "thrill of the pursuit" is all its all about, and once they know they have your interest they withdraw. If I were you I wouldn't contact him, just wait and see what happens.
2007-12-30 06:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been two weeks so there isn't any call for commitment -- as in commiting to text or call. He can still change his mind about you and you about him. It's all relatively new so you shouldn't expect anything.
2007-12-30 06:24:30 · answer #3 · answered by reg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm sounds horribly married to me! Be careful.
2007-12-30 06:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you like him alot.but as he didn't reply to your texts then maybe he isn't interested or he has a gf/partner.
you haven't known him long so just be careful .it sounds dodgy to me . is there not anyone else you like?
2007-12-30 06:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Abby G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about him for a bit,wait till he makes contact. the older the man..the more space he needs...!
2007-12-30 06:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have patience
2007-12-30 06:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by streetrover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋