what are you unhappy about what they have done in your life?
2007-12-29 20:04:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
I think my parents did the best they were able to do with their own issues and problems. I would rather not focus on what happened because then I would use that not to take responsibility for the decisions I make and get on with my own life.
2007-12-30 00:42:22 · answer #1 · answered by Simmi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mother makes poor decisions, and sometimes it's like I'm the mother instead of the daugher - but I've grown used to this over the years. My father is a very loving man though he can be rash and difficult to live with. We're very similar in that we're stubborn, and it got to the point where we can't live in the same house anymore. Though my father and I get into more arguments, I would rather live with him anyday and I regret deciding to be my mother's keeper. All in all, though, I think my parents have always tried to do their best with what they know to be best for my younger siblings and I. I love them very much, but sometimes they're quite the burden.
2007-12-30 06:22:51 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes lack of trust was an issue. They "knew" something because they were the parents & didn't put enough faith in my judgement at times. They were good parents. I try to not do that to my kids now but I know it will still happen. Circle of Life?
Hope this helps.
2007-12-30 04:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nice one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've learned that our parents have done the best they could with what they had. My mom came from an abusive alcoholic home, and in turn I grew up with a crack-addicted mother and became an alcoholic (now recovering) myself. I have no kids, but I learned from her mistakes.
2007-12-30 04:08:27 · answer #4 · answered by Crissy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents have been good parents and brought us up well. I am 36 now and only complaint I have is that my mum still tries to control things, telling me (not advising) on how I should bring up my kids etc....but I know she has experience, but I also know her mother would not have done that to her :)
2007-12-30 04:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by kimbathewhitelion02 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do think so I think thin that i've go the best mother in the world and I hope to be just like her when I have my ver own children
But my dad not so much
2007-12-30 09:57:36 · answer #6 · answered by summer d 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think my mother has done the best she can do, even if she hasn't made the best decisions. My father on the other hand should be ashamed of himself, because no thanks to him, I have done very well for myself.
2007-12-30 04:08:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My parents are wealthy judgemental people who think their **** smells sweeter than everyone elses. I am ashamed of them! Not so much due to the mistakes they make but due to their continual snobby self righteous attitude that they won't change.
2007-12-30 04:15:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they were not good parents,when my brother and i were teens they use to get drunk every weekend and that realy mess my life and my brother's he was in a gang and i was following him.so know im a mom and my mom is trying to tell me how race my kids,thats what i dont like about her she want to teach me how to be a mom when she coudnt do her job when we were younger.
2007-12-30 04:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they did the best they could possibly do. im sure of it. its ME that was so damn sneaky!!! so i could say i wish they would have been more strict...but they couldent help it--they thought i was a angel.
2007-12-30 04:08:39 · answer #10 · answered by Bird Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋