OK well this guy i liked for 4 years and he liked me too. Last year we were pretty close then he moved away. Now he doesnt talk to me on myspace anymore and he completly ignores me online. SO im completly in love with him and i thought i got over him, but i was sooo wrong. Now he has a girlfriend who's a whore and im afriad their gunna do something (if u know what I mean). He is on aim right now and he never is!! I want to say something to him like about how i feel but his girl is RIGHT THERE. I was thinking about sending the blog i made about him to him but idk! Ok so what should i do???What should i say??? Please help me before he logs off!!
2007-12-29 14:04:29 · 25 answers · asked by Cali.Love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he moved away and after a time he let go of yesterday and is working on tomorrow. you need to move on stop trashing his new friends and find your self some new friends. if he sees you trashed his gf on Y A if he had any nice memories they will be gone..SAY nothing, do , get off his AIM list and leave him alone before you get labled a stalker and lose what ever friends you have left.
2007-12-29 14:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by Judy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, as mean and blunt as this is going to sound, MOVE ON!! He is obivously not intrested and he does live far away so it wouldnt of worked out in the first place. Don't bother with the blog to him but its okay to post your feelings. You might also ruin the friendship with this blog so think about it long and hard first.
You will find the right one some day trust me. Just start doing things to get him off your mind like hanging out with friends, reading, video games, talking to someone, dont worry you'll be fine. Good luck.
2007-12-29 22:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sapphire 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you must do it then E-mail him instead of sending an IM that way he has a heads up and can decide to read it when his girlfriend isn't around. I think you have to respect his relationship and move on, especially if he was ignoring you. That means he was trying to push you away. Don't invest your time on him. You'll find it to be a waste and you will end up more hurt. Trust me. Focus on yourself and find someone who will focus on you rather than you chasing someone who's not trying to be chased by you.
2007-12-29 22:08:12 · answer #3 · answered by Story Unknown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, you sound YOUNG! My advice to you is stop obsessing with him. Men are like buses, you miss one, just wait, there's another on the way. Anyway, drop the drama. It's not a good idea. He's history. There's a lot of fish in that ocean, move on.
2007-12-29 22:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
FORGET HIM! That means not wasting your time following what he is doing online. He has made his choice. Now have some pride, and the confidence to find someone who WILL care for you. If you pour out your feelings to him now, with her on IM, it will only come back to haunt you.
2007-12-29 22:07:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should forget him. There are many fishes in the sea. Or you should do what I did with the last girl i fell in love with: tell her about my feelings by phone.
Have a nice night.
2007-12-29 22:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by Paul V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, just don't jump into a conversation about his girlfriend or his relationship right away.
2007-12-29 22:07:52 · answer #7 · answered by rkenshin15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him know how u feel, and tell him what u feel about his girl. but I think u should let him live his life, if whe whants 2 **** her then let him. May b u should wait untill he breaks up with her so u can have a shot.
2007-12-29 22:08:43 · answer #8 · answered by Cool Guy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if the blog has things that are really nasty about him..he could use that to report you for harrassing.
I would not say anything about his g/f...he has moved on...literally...
you need to as hard as it is..to move on also.
2007-12-29 22:08:35 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
send him the blog. It is exactly how you feel and what you want him to know. What can you lose? Honesty is always best.
2007-12-29 22:07:33 · answer #10 · answered by AHHA 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋