Ok so my boyfriend just dumped me today. I am extremely upset and I've explained to him everything. He knows how i feel and all. There's just one thing he doesnt know yet.....Im carrying his child. I am trying to tell him but its always either a bad time or he doesnt answer his phone. But the only thing is that he was drunk when we had sex. And YES IT WAS PROTECTED SEX. But when i tell him, he wont believe me because he doesnt remember anything. What am I suppose to do? He needs to know..
2007-12-29 14:02:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And we cant wait for DNA/paternity test
2007-12-29 14:07:08 · update #1
The only thing you can do is tell him that you are pregnant and tell him that if he doesn't believe you that once the baby is born that you can do a DNA test. If he doesn't want to help you during your pregnancy, you can't do anything, but he will have to be there when you do the test. Sorry, that sounds like a really crappy situation. All the best to you, him, and your little bundle of joy.
2007-12-29 14:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am thinking that this is a hoax, as you were just asking 2 weeks ago (at age 16) about how to kiss a guy and makeout tips. While it is possible you decided to go all the way with a guy you barely know, and decided to do it while he was drunk, I doubt it. I also doubt that you are pregnant. I think you are trying to get him back for some reason. Pregnancy scares won't work. Either take a test and know for sure, or tell him a lie and risk being labelled and never being able to get a guy at school. What do you mean there isn't enough time for a test? You just met the guy, you have 9 months.
2007-12-29 14:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you have something very serious to talk to him about and set up a time to meet him. If he won't set up a time then show up at his house - like you said, he needs to know and you need to know if he is going to stand up and be responsible or not. If he doesn't believe it is his then you can do a DNA test when the baby is born to prove it.
Best wishes.
2007-12-29 14:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by constantdreamer82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it was protected sex, you wouldn't be knocked up by a drunk who doesn't love you.
You sit him down and tell him.
He'll ignore you for 9 months.
When the baby is born, do a DNA test to prove who the father is.
Collect your child support and give him his visitation rights.
Then shut up, stay out of his life and smile and be nice to him and his new girlfriend whenever they come to pick up your kid for the weekend.
2007-12-29 14:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Surprise!!! Oh well, guess he'll find out soon enough. You're gonna have to tell him, obviously, but he'll want a DNA test, so don't get offended and act like you didnt expect it (after the kid is born, of course.) And, of course, he'll be expected to pay child support. Thats a really really big whoopsie on his part.
2007-12-29 14:06:35 · answer #5 · answered by DeFreeze 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it a good time to tell him the next time he answers the phone. You have to tell him whether he believes you or not. You are pregnant and it will show soon enough. He will be responsible, if he was drunk and does not remember.
2007-12-29 14:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by Darla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to his house and make him listen to you. If he does not believe or refuses to take responsibility then have him take a DNA test after the kid is born.
2007-12-29 14:07:15 · answer #7 · answered by david h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if he doesnt remember anything. and if he doesnt believe you. then you have to prove it to him. go take a test. but first tell him. let him know. and then take a test to prove that the child is his.
2007-12-29 14:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by j yanks 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he doesnt believe you than have a dna test to prove it to him
2007-12-29 14:06:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him now, because the longer you waite the more upset he will be that you didn't tell him. if he doesn't believe you then get testing done.
2007-12-29 14:07:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋