Ok, so I'm a guy (21 yrs old) and this holiday season I've already anticipated that I was going to become lonely and I was going to avoid getting into anything because I know my loneliness would be a driving force. I'm also going to be going to australia in july so I don't want to get into anything right now. But there's this girl I've had some interest in since summer and we've had some convos (mostly online, a few in person). She goes to school in so. cali. I'm also really just trying to get to know her to see if she'd be a good fit for me, so far she seems like a good fit in most areas. The past couple of days I was at a retreat and there was another girl there that I paid a lot of attention to... one of those really captivating personalities and pretty smiles. I just feel like a bit of a emotional rollercoaster... some good advice would help :D.
2007-12-29 12:36:06 · 15 answers · asked by lupajunhee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just make sure that either of them are a good fit. and make your choice accordingly just don't lead either of them on
2007-12-29 12:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question when you said "I don't want to get into anything right now because I am going to Australia in July". Why set yourself up to maybe fall in love and then be heart broken when you leave in July? Also, it's not fair to lead these girls on.
2007-12-29 12:54:09 · answer #2 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im something similiar to that right now, I have two bestfriends that happen to be amazing hot girls, and recently i jsut found out they liked me more then friends, god knows why, i always thought they were WAYYYY out of my league. So i dont know what to do. Go on a date with one, see how fun she is to be around, then same with the other girl. I guess that can help choose whos best.
2007-12-29 12:40:46 · answer #3 · answered by yamobethere324 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Search your own heart first. Because you seem confused . And don't seem to know what you want yourself. And while we are at it. Why is it that you men think you are the ones that do the picking? Who said the girls always want you because "YOU" like them? The girls have just as much to say about the relationship as you men do. Thank you and all the other guy's responding to your question.
2007-12-29 12:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by MS Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you got a crush on two woman, you should wait until you get to the land down under because there are some beautiful tan, hot sexy ladies that probably needs your undivided attention, if ya know what I mean
2007-12-29 13:00:47 · answer #5 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young still. Take it easy looking. I'm now in my mid/late 30s and still not married & no kids here.
What you should do is to just live life to the fullest and BANG a young lady will pop into you're life when you are not even expecting it.
2007-12-29 12:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by pblahut70 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 08:27:00 · answer #7 · answered by dotel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you would be doing is called "dating". As long as your honest w/ the women there's nothing wrong with seeing multiple people at one time. That's what's wrong with a lot of people, they want so badly to be in a relationship that they jump into one at the first oppurtunity. What you're doing is fine. You're young AND you're going to be traveling soon, so conversate with everyone you want to....enjoy yourself!
2007-12-29 12:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im only answering to counter the girl saying "go for the girl that loves you, not the girl who you love".
Sorry but that has to be the worst advice I have ever seen. Love is too powerful to ignore. GO FOR THE GIRL YOU LOVE
2007-12-29 12:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by JT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm.. try hanging out with the girl u met & see if u click with her.. ya know?? & if u doo then chill with her a couple timess and see how it goes. & decide which girl fits best for you....
dont over do it.. if u know what i mean...
i would sayy go with the 1st girll.... like ppl always say go with ur first instinct..... idk good luck
2007-12-29 12:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋