okayy, my best friend is bi. i love her to death, but i dont know whats up with me. i think somthin is rubbingg off on me.
is it a possibilityy?
2007-12-29 12:31:35 · 30 answers · asked by Sidneyy!@#$%^&* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm pretty sure she can't turn you gay/bi.
Don't worry about it, just treat her like a normal person.
2007-12-29 12:34:34 · answer #1 · answered by ♫ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i suppose it is, just not to hang out too much with her. One of my bffs are also bi... i know what it's like when you're not and don't ever want to be. Try not to get too close to her, stay at a bff level only, and be careful not to drift into the relationship level. if she seems to be flirting, react in a non-positive way. Ignore her if she seems attracted to you. If she compliments you, thank her, but don't look too flattered, this may give her the wrong idea, causing her to encourage you to become les or bi, which there's nothing wrong with, but not everyone wants to be. Good luck! I hope you stay or become exactly what you want to, and are comfortable with being! God Bless, Kiwi.
2007-12-29 12:41:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had friends who were gay and I have had friends who were bi before and nothing ever "rubbed" off on me or made me want to stop being heterosexual.
It seriously sounds like you are thinking too much about it.
Just relax, accept your friends and remember that if one person jumps off a bridge (just using an analogy, I have no problem with anyones sexual identity), then that doesn't mean you have to follow.
2007-12-29 12:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by TAP 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is a possibility.
A lot of people who have a gay/bi friend become curious, and think about giving it a spin.
IF you have read the book, falling out of fashion the author made a great remark.
"I dont care about labels, i go with what my heart is telling me to do, Gay,Straight, and biosexual, are all labels that try to define your life. Don't let it, and let your heart be free."
2007-12-29 12:38:53 · answer #4 · answered by JoJo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be that she is bi and that u want to be like her or something I have a guy friend t hat used to be bi I don't know if he is now though but he was really cool
2007-12-29 12:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by flickadreamergirl2007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don' think you should be too worried. You are probably still fairly young and figuring out stuff, you may not have met a guy you actually like yet. Just don't worry
2007-12-29 12:35:52 · answer #6 · answered by talldude347 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow that is freaaakkkyyy....
be careful. Try to hook her up w/ guys.
I have a friend who WAS Bi... but hooked her up w/ a sexii guy n she straight as hell now...
most ppl juz say tht to be "diff" but itz not true
2007-12-29 12:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bi-curious maybe? I don't know...try it out. If it is not for you, YOU WILL KNOW. If you like it...who cares? It's your life. You only live it once...so live it the way YOU want to!
2007-12-29 12:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Everyone's mom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do ya think ya might be falling for her, is that what your asking
I have a few bisexual people that I know but hell no I don't even think that that would ever happen to me at least I hope not cause I think i would shoot my self if it did
straight its the only way for me
2007-12-29 12:39:11 · answer #9 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. But you shouldent be scared, love is natural and cant be avoided. Go out and try new things, it cant hurt, and its the only way to be sure.
2007-12-29 12:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by thekidfromdenver 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not possible for "something to rub off on u " especially like that.. you could be curious..i was.but then i met my boyfriend and im not curious anymore... ur friend is bi..im sure u could ask her how she realized she likes gurls!
2007-12-29 12:35:04 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋