what women want ?

Question

ok my qusetion is what do ladies want in a good man do they go for looks or is there somethin inside that they go for also how can i make myself more desireable to women i`m already trying to lose weight so what else can i do to try and meet a nice desireable woman

thanks for all your input but i have to ask how do i get a pretty girl to notice me i have problems starting conversations with women if i can get a lady to talk to me i can probaly get things going from there thanks to the info you have all given me

Answer 1

Women are easy to figure out, that is, if you did your hw.... There are two main traits that attract women to men: they are 1. sense of humor and 2. confidence..... strictly in that order. Physical appearance has little to do with this; women place little to no emphasis on looks, always remember that. Conversational skill is the smoking gun in landing a girl; so work on your conversation techniques. The way you start one, maintain one, and end one is crucial to you finding love or getting laid, whichever fits your MO. Incorporate confidence in every aspect of your life; mix in some humor while talking to the ladies... stimulate their senses with interesting convos and questions, have fun! The key is having fun while you practice your stuff.... Best wishes to you buddy, go out there and play!

Answer 2

Confidence is key. If you have confidence, then it will automatically show through and people will automatically be attracted to you. Also, try to be understanding. There's nothing more irritating than a guy who thinks they're always in the right.

Respect is also an important aspect. Don't base a relationship on how much you can get from her.

Lastly is appearance. I put it last because it really is the heart that matters when finding a quality female. Just remember cleanliness is next godliness and you'll do fine =]

Best of luck!!

Answer 3

This is just my opinion. Every woman is different.
Have you ever watch "The Office" Jim, one of the main guys isn't all that great looking. But his sense of humor is wonderful. I know he isn't a real guy, but girls like guys who can make them laugh. Someone we can just be ourselves with. Someone who is easy to talk to and can entertain us every once in a while. Don't be shy, if there is a girl that you want to talk to, just walk up to her and do so. That is a huge turn on!

Answer 4

all people are diffrent it doesnt matter what it is... there all diffrent. girls dont like posers. just act like yourself and never change because one day there will be a girl out there for oyu that likes the NORMAL you not the wanabe jock, or rap star, and hopfully not emo. there is a girl for every guy and a guy for every girl you just have to be yourself and you'll find her.

Answer 5

im not going 2 lie and say poetry sensitivity and stuff today women dont give a _______ about that stuff u have to be sensitive yes but u can be flirty sexy and turn her on not with poetry well it depends on the woman ok i hope i helped

Answer 6

Here are things I want in a guy:
-Someone who is smart and is able to have an intelligent conversation over dinner.
-Someone who can make me laugh.
-Someone who is attractive.
-Someone who has a stable job.
-Not rude or shady.

Answer 7

Whatever you do. . . be yourself! That's desirable to me a man that is proud of being himself. Good Luck!

Answer 8

arent you that A**whole who said kids are stupid,and thats probably why women dont desire you ya little a**wipe.

Answer 9

both. the looks and most especially the personality.

Answer 10

You have to give her respect, listen to her, show you care, be able to have fun...
Tell her what you like about her.