I've been told many times how pretty I am, and how the boys should be chasing me down the street, but thats never happened!! Is there something I'm doing wrong? If you're a guy, please answer this question, and by the way I am 13 years old so if that helps then good. :)
PLEASE HELP!!!
2007-12-29 08:45:25 · 22 answers · asked by beachbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you are 13, it's ok you have nothing to worry about.
It will happen, don't rush into relationships.
There is someone out there for everyone just be patient.
2007-12-29 08:50:52 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.Frank Sinatra 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's not all about looks, if you think you're really pretty and give off that vibe, no matter how pretty you are, people will think you're an arrogant barbie and that isn't attractive. Also, you're thirteen, it doesn't matter how pretty you are, boys at your age just want to say they have a "girlfriend". It's when they get a bit older that they become constantly horny and absorbed by what girls look like, and that's when they start going out with the "good-looking" girls whose heads are quite far up their own arses. These girls may seem successful to you now, but soon they will get branded as the girl who goes out with all the guys, and that my friend, is what we call a slag. After that, it all goes down hill and people begin to strongly dislike those girls, and they can only get guys who aren't worth it.
A guy who cares solely about looks isn't one worth being with.
All in all, guys are immature shites until they grow up a little...when they realise what morons they've been, and that's when the nice girls get a chance.
I've wasted enough time answering this question. In conclusion, stop being obsessed with your looks and wait til you're a bit older.
2007-12-30 13:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself some of these questions: Are you annoying? At school do you talk to other students (other boys), or just sit on a bench like a loaner waiting for them to come to you? Is it the impression you give to others? (Example: Mean? Stuck-up? Shy? etc..) Try talking to some boys, don't be shy, you'll never know. By the way I'm 16 & I had the same problem a few years ago, not anymore. So try doing a change of personality.
2007-12-29 16:55:19 · answer #3 · answered by Metalgods69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're only 13. you have years of boys asking you out. I had my first boyfriend when I was 15 and now when I think back to it I was way to immature and young. Don't sweat it. By the time you're 18 and you think about how you really wanted to date at 13 you'll just think that you were too young.
2007-12-29 16:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Morgan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question.
I am also 13 and people be telling a thousands times how beautiful or pretty I am and how boys are going to be all around me.
Well I'm waiting and it still hasn't happpened yet. And I'll be 14 this coming March. I guess we'll just gonna have to wait.
2007-12-29 16:54:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most 13 year old boys don't want a girlfriend.
2007-12-29 16:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Rosie_0801 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
helllooooooooooooo you're only 13. Wait until you're 21 to whine. Focus on your education.
2007-12-29 16:51:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Uh yeah, it's because you are so young. Wait until your 14-15-16 & guys will have confidence to talk to you
2007-12-29 16:52:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're still too young to be taking dating that seriously. Just wait it out. Be yourself and one of these days guys will find out who you really are.
2007-12-29 16:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wait till your like 17 to start complaining. for now your too young to even worry about it. right now boys your age are scared of most girls and even if you did get a BF he wouldnt know how to act.
2007-12-29 16:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by H*R*M* 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋