Im living with my ex and his uncle. Should I destroy his guitars?

Question

Me and his uncle are friends and roommates and until a few days ago, we all lived togethrt as one happy family. Me and my ex broke up 2 days ago when I found out he's a cheating bastard. He recenntly moved in with us cuz he didn't have a place to live, and when he moved in, he was already cheating on me. I just found out. Now he acts like its his house(its mine and his uncles), and he seems to get off on being a slut and thinking I don't know. He'll giggle when he gets text messages and stuff like that. He doesn't think I know. I broke up with him a couple days ago but I've been getting pissed off now and I wanna smash his guitars. He's not there alot of the time. Should I stoop? They are pieces of crap guitars anyways.

Answer 1

**** yes, he destroyed your heart and house. The least you can destroy is his guitars!!!!

Answer 2

You should talk to his uncle about kicking him out. If it is okay with him just pack up his stuff and put them outside. If he is payin rent or yall have some kind of lease, you will have to give him a 30 day notice but if not, then good riddens to him!!!!

If his uncle wants him to stay then maybe it would be better if you just found a place of your own, or find someone else to roommate with elsewhere. but make sure you do it in a legal way, so that you wont end up in court havin to pay extra rent and utilities, etc.

But it is obvious you two ( you and your ex) cannot live under the same roof 2getha so someone has got to go. Do Not Break his cheap guitars! You dont want to cause more drama for yourself.

Answer 3

First, why give him the satisfaction of being so in love with him that you can't control yourself. Second, it could turn into a police matter or more likely a civil court matter (either one bad for you). Do some of your own secret smiling. Be patient, watch and wait. You won't need to lie or do anything mean, but a time will come when you can with a few well thought out words, trash him in front of a girl he cares about a great deal. Getting even AND doing the other girl a favor at the same time.

Answer 4

dont' do anything stupid like that, stop and breathe and think rationally...... don't let emotions take over cuz if you do then karma will come back and bite you in the A&&....... kick him out ASAP. Talk to the uncle and tell him you are EXTREMELY uncomfortable with the situation and tell him you want him OUT. If he doesn't abide by your wishes then he really doesnt respect you (the uncle I mean)......... either way if his name isn't on the lease then he has NO rights there...... take all of his stuff out of the house when he's not there, change the locks and give the uncle the new key but obviously don't let the ex get a hold of the new key....... that's the only surefire way to get him out and keep him out.......

When he leaves to go to work, or go out, gather all his crap, make sure you get ALL of it. Put it in garbage bags or whatever, put it on the front porch, step,/take it to someones house he knows if you don't have a front porch, then change the locks as FAST as you can, and don't let him get ahold of the key......... That's the way I'd do it.......

ABOVE EVERYTHING ELSE, EVEN IF YOU DONT KICK HIM OUT, IGNORE HIM AND ACT HAPPY AS HELL!!!!!! DO NOT ACKNOWLEDGE HIM! HE WILL WONDER WHY YOU ARE SO HAPPY, LET HIM WONDER!!!!!!

Answer 5

Get over him. You must care because you want revenge and he's asking for it. Do you think if he aggravates you enough and you do something stupid the uncles, his family, will ask you to move? Then he's rid of you. Play a better game. It's time to suck it up and not let him know he is getting to you. Just be glad you found out that he is a cheater and a liar before you wasted any more time. Concentrate on moving on. However, I thoroughly believe what goes around comes around. You don't have to plan getting even because it happens because of what he does. And when he's sliding down that hole and reaches out to you, I'd step on his other hand. But that requires patience. Everything is still fresh and the wounds haven't begun to heal over so don't do anything stupid. Bide your time-when you have a much cooler head. Living with him is not good for you and it's his family. You might want to have a talk with the uncles about how difficult it is for you to live under the same roof with him and see what they have to say about asking him to move.

Answer 6

If he is old enough to be out on his own, tell his uncle that you can't live their anymore(assuming he knows about the relatioship) and therefore either a) he moves out b) you both sell the house or c) you take him to court to obtain your share of the houses valuation.
The uncle will not want to do b, or c, so will choose a, and if this guy is as big a jerk as you say he is, making him looking for a new person to sponge off of will probably p.o. him more than smashing his guitars.

Answer 7

Thats hard it really is. smashing gutars wont get rid of that pain but if he was cheating on you and you obviosly cant handle seeing him with some one else than kick him out for sure but dont smash his guitars. what dose his uncle say about the deal I supose that plays a factor in all this. if there isa conflict say hey if he is here I ant paying my half cause 'I dont want him here. if any thing smash his gutars and freakishly stalk him read his text and eventually get him too get a restraining order aganst you than he will have too move out. Or just tell him it bothers youi and how frustrated you are with him that might work. besides sounds like he wants the attention if he giggles when he gets a text.he is looking for your attention whatever kind of attention that maybe. But he also is the one cheating so **** him. get another BF even if its some one you dont like than see how he reacts or even just lie about it and see what happens.

Answer 8

no. that would make you as muuch of a **** as he is, not to mention make him happy that he has made you stoop to his level. then he can have a reason in his own warped mind to not feel the guilt he should feel for what he has done to you. ignoring him goes a much longer way.why are you letting him live with you. that is wierd. kick him out or give him a deadline when he has to leave and make him pay for rent and food. i cant see why you would let him move in with you unless you have issues yourself. get rid of him.clean breaks are always best.none of this hanging around till you have a weak moment and find yourself back n the same situation and hurt or till you get so frustrated you do something, like smash his guitars, so he can call the cops on you and keep the upper hand.get rid of him. holidays or not. i am sure he can manipulate his way around one of the people who are texting him.let them foot his bill and put up with his annoying ways.

Answer 9

I would say no to smashing the guitars even though it may feel good right then, but later you will feel horrible about it. Since you are there with him and his uncle, if you don't own the place I would say protect yourself and leave there if you don't want to be with him anymore. For one, being between family is never good, plus you will still see him and be reminded of what happened constantly. I have to say find another room mate soon.

Answer 10

As a collector of guitars I have two thoughts on this.
1: all crappy guitars should be smashed.
2: all non-crappy guitars should be sold or given away.
There's an old saying - "you can have my ol' lady, but don't take my guitar". If a guy has his guitar, he'll always be able to find another woman. (chicks are funny that way)
If you're that pissed, give them to another guy and tell him " Oh, I thought you moved out and left them behind". - its the ultimate f**k you.
If they were important to him, he'd have taken them with him.

Answer 11

You really want to get charged with destruction of property!? I realize it would make you feel better for a little while, but in the end, it definately would not be worth it. Talk to his uncle, kick him out. Then you won't have to put up with him anymore. If you and his uncle own the place, it shouldn't be that hard to get him out.