I can't stand my boyfriend, but I love his money, what should I do?

Question

I go with a white russian boy... he's very spoiled and his parents have alot of money. He is 20 years old but he acts like a 5 year old child LITERALLY! I have to tell him to quit talking so much, and quit actin like a dumass Jessica Simpson BC he is so damn dingy! He doesn't use a rag when he showers, his room is disgusting and he talks me to death, and compliments me on everything i do! Im cussin him out all the time, he lets me use his car whenever I want, and when his parents aren't pissed off at him, they keep his savings account open so I can spend as much money as I want! Truth is I can't stand him the only thing I like to do is use his money and his car, and smoke the weed but thats it! I try to avoid sex as much as possible, I give other guys my number right in front of him and he doesn't even realize it BC he is so damn dumb! Everytime I breakup with him he tells me that he is gonna kill himself. Im trying to find another boyfriend thats on my level,and keep dingy on the side

Am I wrong? I ts pretty obvious I dont want him, I only call him when I want him to swipe his card or give me some cash, I'm always cussin him out and treating him like sh1t so I think its not my fault that he is so slow that he doesnt realize I'm using him, its crystal clear! I feel like I'm getting by without even trying. Might as well keep going!

Answer 1

well go head with yourt bad self! if u tried to leave him and he keeps begging for you back then i would keep taking him for what he has !

Answer 2

I hope you have at least been spending his money on things you can pawn and use as assets. I don't know if you liked him at first, or if you just wanted his money from the beginning. If it is the second, you probably should have told him, "look dude I like you but it's really all about the money, I gotta tell you the truth." that's what i do. If you liked him at first, man, I'm not sure. I don't think you want to hurt him. If he really cries to keep you there, slide the card and get things that will be an asset. If you can't pay a bill with it, don't take advantage, at least do that. After that the next time he threatens to kill himself, let him know it's all about the money, maybe you can help him get another girl, slide the card wisely, you warned him. Then stop, Don't go so far as to be a huge *****. Right? After you are done, cut him off and run because he sounds like he is going to be a stalker. Good luck. Pray your Rosary dear.

Answer 3

You obviously put financial greed before self respect.
What is so wonderful about spending someone's money and taking them for a ride? Does it make you happy or proud of yourself?
Why waste your time on someone you don't care about - isn't it boring and degrading?
Why don't you think what you are doing to yourself and this boy by this shameful relationship?
If it's money you want, why don't you study and get some qualifications, then you can earn it yourself and not be dependant on others? This will increase your self-esteem, which I suspect is somewhat low, and you will be able to have a more equal and fulfilling relationship.

Answer 4

You know something? You are a real piece of work! You are pathetic more then he is. He has low, self esteem and you are a using, selfish, ungrateful....well you know what else. You should be ashamed of yourself, but you are so "self-centered" that you only think of you. I hope this young man gets a clue and dumps your worthless, cheating self. And in ALL my times answering a Yahoo question, YOU are the only one that truly disgusts me.

Answer 5

ok try and be a little nicer imagen if u were completely inlove with a totally biatch?? but urself in his shoes
break up with him but try and be nice say uve only been uding him and u feel bad and that u think he cud do way better than u (even if u dont belive it)
and then forget about him
or if u cant do that keep dating him and donate some of his money to charity so then at least ur doing soemthing good

Answer 6

Too bad you're not smart enough to answer this yourself!

Get your own money! He will snap out of it one day and dump you but at least be smart enough to pay for an education for yourself or start your own business...SOMETHING in the meantime!

People like you who use other people are disgusting.

Answer 7

well sweetie you know you are wrong for that if you do not care for him than you need to leave money is not everything and for one thing he is dumb as hell if he going to stay with someone who going to give their number out to other men in front of his face and do not do anything so leave him because right now you think what you doing is fun but one of these days at going to happen you but doubt.

Answer 8

That's really bad. what kind of relationship is that? You should find someone you love because of who they are, not because of money. It may not seem like it now, but money can't buy you love, and money can't always make you happy. There are more things to enjoy in life than money, and I don't think you should use someone like that, no matter how stupid he is. Just telling you what i think. ahha

Answer 9

First of all, weed is such an awful thing for you! Second of all, you should not take advantage of him. Seems like you both need to move on and find someone on your own level.

Answer 10

he is only saying he will kill himself to get attention and hope you will still go out with him... your obviously not in a loving relationship so just end it, tell him straight, he acts like a kid and you want a guy who acts like a man...
you should just get a job with good pay then you won't need to use him for money..

Answer 11

You said your using him. You'll get what you deserve. Too bad your not smart enough to make your own money, then you wouln't need to ask this question. Oh, the funny thing is this. You said you like HIS money. That's absolutley right, it is HIS money and always will be! You just wish it was yours.