I have been stuttering since I was young, so I've always been a bit shy and lacking confidence. Because of this I really don't know how to talk to girls.
I can't approach them really, because I will stutter and make funny faces while trying to spit out the words I actually want to say.
This is why I'm looking for some other way to naturally meet girls i like (through a hobby or something like that) and I'd like to improve my confidence.
I was wondering if you guys have some suggestions on both the meeting women and improving self confidence
2007-12-29 07:22:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Allright!
any suggestions on getting more confident, besides "just do it"?
2007-12-29 07:51:36 · update #1
Yes you should look into taking a singles cooking class, or take up a hobby where you can meet other people in general. If you're learning a new skill not only does it make you more interesting and cultured, you could potentially meet your soulmate. Most urban areas, or cities have everything from salsa lessons, to learning a new language classes at their local community college or university. Look into learning something new. It'll keep you busy, build your confidence, and you might meet someone who can look past your stuttering which is not the end of the world, it could be so much worse. Best of luck.
2007-12-29 07:28:50 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Work on overcoming your stuttering with the steps in the book "Self Therapy for the Stutterer" by The Stuttering Foundation of America and available in their estore or on Amazon.com. Check out their web site for other tips at www.stutteringhelp.org. Join the myspace page http://groups.myspace.com/stutteringfoundation and meet other people who stutter. There is a certain girl that is meant for you, and you will meet her. Don't worry about it and just let it happen.
2007-12-31 00:58:18 · answer #2 · answered by Bud B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wright a well written note and then look for a chance to make eye contact. Let her see your insides before you meet her face to face. Try talking on the phone first if you are less nervous that way. Be yourself and someone someday will appreciate it. If they don't then they were not worth your efforts.
2007-12-29 15:28:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u like a girl, see if she has msn or summin like that, I know you might nthink it's weird hooking up ova the internet and all but if you know who she is, and you wouldn't stutter if you typed
2007-12-29 15:26:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its been 19 long yrs since i nvr had any gf/female friends... This shame and embarrassment is just too great. Too powerful for meh to stop it and control it =x
2014-01-21 16:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by Keyspirits 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guitar.
DUH
xD
also...
cooking is great.
hip hop dancing is also stellariciuos.
2007-12-29 15:25:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋