I am 15 weeks pregnant and have been having very vivid dreams. I dreamt several times about beating my mother, and last night I dreamt that I had beaten her to death.My mother and I had a very rough relationship and she committed suicide 7 years ago. Can anyone interpret what this could mean?
I have also dreamed of beating my ex-husband and some random girl from high school (which I also beat to death). If anyone has any idea where this is coming from I would love to know. And no I'm not a violent person in reality.
2007-12-29 06:47:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
"I'm not a violent person in reality."
No, you're not. If any thing, you are trying so hard *not* to be angry at people who have caused you so much pain, that it needs expression somewhere, and it is finding expression in your dreams. The pregnancy is probably bringing emotions that you have worked so hard to suppress to the surface. Now that you are about to become a mother, you are confronted with all kinds of crazy feelings about your own mother. You may even be harboring fears that when you become a mother, you will be like her (I don't think you will, though) You probably also have unresolved anger about your ex, and hey, what the heck, let's grab some bully from school while we're at it, there's a lot of pent up anger here that needs expression. Especially mom. I'm sure that you cried, and grieved, and maybe felt guilty, and wondered if you had any thing to do with it, but did you ever get good and mad at her for what she did? Why did she cave? Why did she bail? Why did she leave you alone? Why couldn't she deal? I know I would have questions like that, if I were in your shoes. I feel it's really important for you at this time to get that out one way or another. Even if you just buy a journal, and write down everything you feel about your mom committing suicide, including things that made you mad about it, and also things that you were mad at her about that couldn't find closure over the way that she left, write it the way you would tell her if she were there in person, then burn it, and see the fire as releasing your anger from your spirit in a "safe" way. Do likewise with your ex, if you feel it's appropriate. Seek counseling if you feel a need, to help you learn how to express your anger.
There is a time to be angry, just as there is a time for anything else... Pound pillows, scream at the top of your lungs, let it out! If you get mad at your mom, that doesn't mean you didn't love her. Of course you love her, and I'm sure you understand by now that she was mentally ill, and at least some of your problems with her could be because of that, but allow yourself to be angry at her for doing what she did, instead of getting help, and staying around to be a mother to you, and a grandmother to your baby.... Good luck.....
2007-12-29 07:55:33 · answer #1 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams About Beating Someone Up
2017-01-18 09:08:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well dreams are really just messages from the subconscious mind. It could be perhaps that you're angry at these people for something they've done to you. Dreams like this are usually over-exaggerated, but they show something important. If you had a rough relationship with your mother, perhaps you're still angry with her, even if you don't feel like you are. Maybe she never apologized for something that really hurt you. Same with your ex husband and even the girl from school. The girl from school may have done something as simple as tripped you or maybe spread a rumor.
These dreams are pretty harmless, but if you ever feel the need to want to physically do these things, maybe see a psychologist. I know it sounds wacky, but they can professionally interpret the dreams and tell you why you're feeling the way you could feel.
2007-12-29 06:54:05 · answer #3 · answered by charlotte 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your dreams are just dreams, they can get weird at times when you are pregnant because of hormones. It doesn't mean you want to kill anyone.Your system is probably getting an overflow of harmones from the baby. Sometimes an excess of testosterone in ladies can make for a rough time all the way around.
2007-12-29 08:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by happygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe its just side effects of being pregnant. my step sister was pregnant and she told about some pretty disturbing dreams she had too, but she had the baby and hasnt ahd a dream like that since
2007-12-29 06:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by sally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are angry about something. or you could possible still have issues with your mom and your ex and even the girl from highschool that you have not dealt with. take a good look at why you are angry with them and try to forgive it or you will continue to have these dreams.
2007-12-29 06:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by fdragoneyesonme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good thing your mother is already dead, you won't be able to killer her now.
lucky for that husband, he is an ex, and hopefully very far and safely away from a monster like you. that poor girl at high school, i hope she is safe.
call the police, tell them you are thinking of beating people to death. they have a special cell to keep you in, until they can get your head read, and assign you to a rubber room in the looney bin.
2007-12-29 06:58:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
That's scary. Don't ever think your going crazy okay. You ar epregnent and when you are pregnent you have crazy dreams that make you emotional. It happened to my sister.
2007-12-29 06:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by KC (: 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your lioness protecting your cubs instinct is kicking in.
2007-12-29 06:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by roadrunner 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try not to dream of any thing or you could try to dream of something peaceful
2007-12-29 06:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by natalia s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋