She doesn't want to sleep with a whole lot of women, she pretty much just wants to find a good one and stick with her.
2007-12-29 06:31:33 · 40 answers · asked by mixedblood84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you will get an account on passion.com, they have listings there for what you want.
You can email me with your username and password, and I will help you with your search.
:)
2007-12-29 06:37:56 · answer #1 · answered by tim269u 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think to be honest she's going to have to do the finding bit as just like hetro-sexual relationships, they've got to be compatible. Btw, don't expect this to turn into 3-sums or them let you watch as it generally doesn't work that way.
As for finding - that ain't easy really, but I suspect there might be a gay bar in the town or a nearby town, and it just seems to happen going by what one of my friends has told me. Surprising number of women sleep with other women and are also happily married.
Trusted is tricky, but clean - see comment about her finding this person. Basically it's as hard as finding the right girl / boy in any relationship.
2007-12-29 06:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My poor husband is going through the same thing. I have to admit, this is an issue for myself actually. I am torn with the appropriatness of my sexuality. I know that I am this way and I am very comfortable about it but since I am married and everyone knows the moral vow of marriage how do we handle this. My husband supports my sexuality of course. He is a great man, but his feelings are still involved and this is such a wonderful question. My husband should be the one to answer this really.
This really is a question of trust. If you trust her to pursue her interests, without betrying you by emotionally attaching herself to another woman over you. She has to trust you also. She has to be able to trust that you may express concerns about a particular persons intentions. Yoiu have to be fair to her wants, but she has to be fair about your fears and worries about specific situations that may arise. Thats about the entire problem that I have experienced. If that can be handled properly, then everything can be great.
I hope we have helped. Good luck.
2007-12-29 06:40:26 · answer #3 · answered by Queen B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have a really open relationship. So many people are uptight about this aspect. I question some of the other responses as to whether they are married or not.... it's all well and good to say that the institution of marriage is so sacred that you should never let another person get physically involved, but I'd be interested to see how many of these people change their opinions AFTER they actually get married!
Let your wife her pick her own girlfriend. Give her encouragement that she has the ability to pick her own sex partner.
2007-12-29 06:39:56 · answer #4 · answered by Answer_bully 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your wife is telling you something being bi
isn't the only thing she is shes' becoming fully gay.Pretty soon your going to become less important and the women you chose for your wife will be wearing your shoes sitting on your couch watching your football games.While your wearing the apron baking homemade cookies and taking yoga lessons.I would definitely tell her to find her own women she wants to spend the rest of her life with!!!!!!!!!!
2007-12-29 06:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Bad Azz Bunnie 22 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to this Bi thing group on the computer and meet one, take her (yourself) for a Dr. visit and have her checked out for all the necessary tests etc. The break her in that she is for your wife only and then all should be well in "Camelot".
2007-12-29 06:38:33 · answer #6 · answered by yawlcome2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up silly man..you would be better off getting a divorce instead of trying to find your wife a galfriend. How old are you anyway because your acting real moronish.
2007-12-29 06:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's just wrong and unnatural, sorry to break it to ya..
She's your wife. She should only be interested in having you to sleep with and be intimate with !
I would have a long talk with her about this. It just isn't right now matter what you say. A marriage is a bond between 2 people, no one else...She's sick !
:)
2007-12-29 06:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't. If wife wants to sleep with women, that's fine, but not while she's living in your house as your wife.
TX Mom
2007-12-29 06:34:54 · answer #9 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a backbone and stand up for yourself and walk the hell out of that stupid marriage where you are so disrespected. Find a woman who treats you with love and like the man that you are.
2007-12-29 06:34:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Divorce her and let that be her problem. No, I'm just kidding! I am not sure, unless she knows a woman she likes. Use a condom though. You never know what the other woman has been doing.
2007-12-29 06:34:33 · answer #11 · answered by Boots 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋