My mom just now told me that my cousin is getting married on new years.He dosen't even know i am carrying his child.My life is ruined.Will it ruin his marriage if i told him i was carrying his baby around?
2007-12-29 04:14:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Hmmmm, You've JUST found out you are 3 mnths pregnant
10 mins later you are "starting to show"
and now the father's marrying someone else.
You've had once heck of an exciting day . . .
Out of interest WHAT WAS the question on this one ? I can't see one, oh will his marriage be ruined ? Dunno, tell him and find out !
2007-12-29 04:18:22 · answer #1 · answered by stu_the_kilted_scot 7 · 8⤊ 0⤋
You are pregnant with your cousins child and you're worried about ruining things!!! Things are already ruined girl! Why would you have a relationship with your cousin? That's incest...have you no morals? Of course you need to tell him! His fiance needs to know! How awful for everyone involved! Everyone is going to be hurt but New Year's is around the corner and you need to act fast! Things are already bad and the best you can do at this point is to be honest for everyone's sake! Especially this poor child!!! You first need to tell him and if he decides to marry regardless then you did your part and all you could do which is just be honest and tell him you are pregnant! It's a no win situation. Do something right by being honest....tell him! It will cause more problems if you tell him later! Either way there's no right time to make this announcement of baby news! The damage is done so do your part on bringing some right into all this! Tell him!Good Luck!
2007-12-29 04:45:34 · answer #2 · answered by itzybit_303 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief. There are so many issues in this short little question. Of course you need to tell him you are carrying his child. And then he has to tell his fiance. Then let the pieces fall where they may. Meanwhile, your life can't be ruined because now you are going to be responsible for another living being. So get your act together and figure out the plan for your life and for this baby so he or she has a chance at a good life. You've already got three hurt adults, why mess up the kid's life too? Get your head on straight sister and do the right thing!
2007-12-29 04:35:43 · answer #3 · answered by Q-mama 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YOUR COUSIN?? It's a little late at this point to worry about your life being ruined. You made a poor decision and now you're facing the consequences. I doubt if there would be a wedding if his fiancee knew of this incestual affair; I imagine she would see her fiance in the same way. It would not make your life any better if you told them. In fact, it might make things even worse. I think you need some professional advice before you make any more poor decisions. In the meantime, sew your toes together and sew your knees together before you ruin any more lives.
2007-12-29 04:28:05 · answer #4 · answered by missingora 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My personal opinions about getting "involved" with your COUSIN aside... you need to be honest with him. Tell him privately that you are having his child. If the wedding was this quick that you only just found out, it can be postponed or cancelled just as quick. Besides I don't know how a guy could be involved with you and then only a few months later be getting married to another woman. I don't know that this marriage was solid anyway. That's really quick!!
2007-12-29 07:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by J.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing sleeping with your cousin in the first place? Ever heard of incest? He needs to be financially responsible so tell him. Like right now! Are we, the taxpayers, supposed to support you and your baby or are you just going to let good old Mom raise it. Get after this guy and think twice before you get involved next time.
2007-12-29 04:24:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if I understand this correctly. You're saying that your cousin is getting married and he is also the father of your baby? If he is indeed your cousin, then you have bigger issues than than this wedding. For instance, explaining this incestuous relationship to the rest of your family.
2007-12-29 04:44:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously or is this a joke?
2007-12-31 09:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by serenity 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad
2007-12-29 05:41:58 · answer #9 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh yeah
2007-12-29 04:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by nacho momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋