2007-12-29 03:45:24 · 13 answers · asked by Lyssa Z 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry for your loss, You are still feeling the lost of your hubby, no one can make you feel like he did. But you need to live on and get on with your life. Your next soul mate is still out there . Stop looking and just let it happen in time you will find him, he just will come out of the blue and then you will know. Do not give up, and good luck he is really out there waiting for you only time well tell. Go out and meet new people enjoy life have a little fun friends first then see where it goes from there. OK.
2007-12-29 03:57:02 · answer #1 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow sorry to hear that! to lose your soulmate so soon is a hard thing. I dont know what i would do. But you seem to be hanging in there!
Just keep your head up. Dont look so hard or try to hard (if you are) Time will heal, and the best things come to people who wait. I got married June of 06 and Divorced by March of 07! Biggest mistake cause i settled. Dont settle and i'm sure there is another soulmate out there for you! Keep your head up, and stay strong. Something will happen when you least expect it! I know it did for me! your young yet, do the things you know your hubby would have wanted you to do, and keep his spirt alive for him! you know he would have wanted that!
Take care
2007-12-29 11:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by blondieemt21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, I am sorry for your loss. I know this is going to be hard, but you have to think about what you want in a soulmate. I myself would not try to find a man with the same qualities of your husband that passed. Only begin to look when you are comfortable and know that you can start over. Good Luck!!!
2007-12-29 11:51:57 · answer #3 · answered by Carl T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for your loss. While your late husband may have been your soulmate, many people (including myself) believe that there are actually several people in this world who can be your soulmate.
I met my husband online on a dating website. Maybe you could meet someone there! Or at church maybe.
You will find your new soulmate eventually, but he will be different from your late husband, and that's okay. Try not to compare the two because no one will ever take his place in your heart.
2007-12-29 11:53:17 · answer #4 · answered by Shana B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear that you lost your hubby-sounds like you've been trying to date but you can't find anyone that compares to the one you lost. My suggestion, try an online dating site that matches you by similar interest and so forth-and don't compare any potential mates to your hubby that passed because they'll never compare. You're young and you deserve to find someone else that makes you happy-it's very difficult to adjust/cope with losing someone close but you have your whole life ahead of you-Good Luck
2007-12-29 11:54:32 · answer #5 · answered by Jaxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make all kinds of friends.
Start by doing some volunteering for an organization you'd be interested in.A good way to meet new people while also helping others.
You'll find someone when you least expect it.The trick is to keep busy and involved with your life.There are so many good ways to meet people.Church organizartions,charitable organizations,libraries, singles groups, to name a few.
Good luck.
2007-12-29 11:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you ...
But looking for someone to fill the lonely void in you, much more a soulmate, should not be a conscious effort. Just live your life one day at a time and if it meant to be, someone will be out there waiting for you.
2007-12-29 11:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Pointy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My condolences on that sad event. I would say that perhaps you are looking too hard and for too specific a purpose. You will be more complete and emotionally stable if you learn to live by yourself among the company of friends. One of those friends, perhaps, will turn out to be special. Perhaps that person will be the next "the one".
Good luck.
2007-12-29 11:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Don M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for passing of your husband and I know you loved him very much. Your husband would of wanted you to move on and find someone to share things with. Your husband will never be forgotting in your mind but allow yourself to love again and too do that is to move on and love yourself
2007-12-29 11:51:11 · answer #9 · answered by 38C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lyssa Z, Well the best thing for you to do is pray ! I will pray for you to meet a true gentleman with whom you can become best friends,marry, then lovers ! Sorry hon but I am old enough to be your daddy.
2007-12-29 11:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋