People say i am dumb blond it really upsets me .x.x.x.x.x ?

Question

i am blonde naturally and a lot of people ave been very cruel. i am quite slow like i dont get jokes easily and if someone is bein horrible to me i dnt usually notice. alot of people laugh at me co i am dumb at maths and i thought u could buy a car when u were 15. no joke and also i get bullied and i hate it. i try to be smarter but i cant cos i end up blurting out a rong answer or something and it is all a mess cos people laugh. it is so humilating. my bf is the only 1 who sticks up for me and even his m8s laugh cos i am so dumb. please help me.

i no but i really am dumb and i hate it

to the 2nd answer pls dnt take the mick it is nt funny

Answer 1

Never never consider yourself dumb. People are cruel when they try to pick on someone who is not at their level.

I hated Math and didn't do so well. It doesn't make me dumb. I am also blond growing up. As I get older, it is turning darker and now I have a few gray hairs to add to it.

If they know it bothers you, they will keep doing it. Thank them when they call you a name. They don't know any better. It is not right to make fun of others weaknesses. Some people do it good natured. I am sure you have so many strengths that they do not know about.

You should tell them that it is cruel and really hurts your feelings to call you names. Grade school is over and it is time for them to grow up and act mature and more professional. What if the shoes were reversed? They wouldn't like it. If they got to really and truly know you, they would see so many good things. They are truly missing out on a great person. They cannot make true friends by being mean to others.

You keep being yourself. Don't let anyone ever make you change. I am sure you have one of the kindess hearts around. That will get you more in life than making enemies by being immature. They will see. Many people who grow up and were the victims of some sort of bullying, grow up strong. The people who did the bullying wind up regreting their actions and I know many who actually apologize to them for being that way towards them.

Your actions will show them that you are far more mature and you are not going to stoop to their level by being mean to others at anyones expense.

I will say some prayers for you. God Bless you and have a wonderful new year.

Answer 2

Well I am a blond, and the first thing I'll tell you is that it is bad that YOU have a very low opinion of yourself. Your self esteem is in the gutter. If you are not educated enough, go and change that, the liberary is free (READ ALOT, ALL THE TIME), go to school, get a somebody to help you from church or school, or someplace else. YOU ARE SMART ENOUGH TO USE THE COMPUTER AND ASK FOR HELP. Math can be learned, as for talking JUST DON'T. DON'T GIVE THESE PEOPLE A REASON TO TEASE YOU. You really need to rething the people you are with, including you boyfriend. We can not help you, only you can help yourself-go learn, go to the liberary, change you life. IF YOU WANT THINGS TO CHANGE, CHANGE THEM. But as God is my witness, it is not the hair color.

Answer 3

You must have other attributes going for you.
And maybe you should pursue being a comic.

That show Friends, Phoebe (Lisa Kudrow), always acted like a ditz and said some zany things.
She was a good hearted person even though she wasn't the brightest crayon in the box.

Find the things that you are good at. Distance yourself from the people that hurt your feelings.

Answer 4

im a blonde too, its ok! we all get teased once in a while!!!!!! i get teased a lot, but im pretty smart, i guess. I seriously dont think youre dumb, and its definitely NOT because of your hair color! people mix that up a lot, but just because youre blonde, it doesnt make you dumb( at least not ALL the time) because i have friends that are brunes and they can be REALLY dumb, even dumber than me. i say dont take it personally, or just dont even show any anger toward it, just ignore it. They are just havin fun w. you and if you get aggressive toward it, they will keep doing it cos its "fun"

:o) loco over choco

Answer 5

just love ur dumbness... sounds dumb, but if you can laugh at stupid things you say or do, other ppl will think its charming, and try to protect you from people being mean. like, im kinda dumb, but i dont have very blond hair at the moment, and i sound smart in tests and homework and stuff, but people find it cute and endearing that i dont get jokes, and dont realise when people tease me. so i dont have to do anything and people explain things to me, and by the time i realise that someones being a *****, everyone else has made them apologise and leave.
and maths is just a crappy stupid thing, dont worry about it.

Answer 6

Pretend that you are smart and eventually you will become smarter. Granted, you can't make a silk purse out of a sow's ear, but we can all improve. Don't worry what bullies think; pick a new crowd to listen to.

Answer 7

I don't think calling anyone dumb is a NICE thing to do. However I have met people who spend more time announcing that they are dumb and it does draw attention to the degree of low self esteem one projects

Answer 8

i used to be a bleach blond chick but my hair naturally turned brown it stil has some blond streks but don't let ur hair or other people's cruel comments define u. just study for school pay attention in class turn in all ur work and u'll be fine i mean now i'm a straight a student but i still can't get spelling down soo? who cares?

Answer 9

It doesn't matter if you are dumb or not, don't let people treat you like that. Try and distance yourself from people that will make fun of you. You don't have to impress anyone by always knowing the answer, its okay to just say ' i don't know'. And you don't have to feel bad about it.

Answer 10

People aren't going to stop calling you a dumb blonde if you don't believe that you aren't a dumb blonde. You seem to give a lot of reasons why you ARE a dumb blonde, and no reasons why you aren't. Just believe in yourself! You can do it!