after my sister died?

Question

she was beaten up so badly by her boyfriend and developed a brain cancer and passed away 4 months after.
About a year later i went to a clarovayent to try and contact her to see if she was at peace but the medium told me she was there but couldn't make contact because she was at a place to get the special help she needed to get over this
does anyone have any idea what this means as it has bothered me since
i didn't give the medium any clues who i was or who i was there for

to mis
i strongley urge you to get you're sister away from this man as quick as possible please don't end up in my situation if you don't and something happens you will blame youself cos you will think you should have done more please do more while you still can my sister left 2 children behind and my other sister is caring for them while the pillock of a boyfriend rots in prison

Answer 1

I would go bk and ask her/him., sorry about your sis. My sis. is in a similar situation but not dead yet, it scares the crap out of me i begged her to leave him alone, but they have a son together. she won't leave. I wish i knew what to do.

Thank you for your concern duckster but, she just won't leave him. I'll have to wait til he screws up & call his probation officer, He was on probation for a drug offense....just in case your wondering my sis does not do any drugs, And he had told her that he don't do them "anymore" when they first met. The Liar!

Answer 2

Come on you lot she doesn't need your sarcasm, she needs answers. Believe that your sister is at peace and the special place that was mentioned is a place of comfort.

Your sister went through a traumatic time, she is healing and you have nothing to worry about.
When the time is right she will contact you, I agree some mediums are not right, if the child has said she give no information then be it so.

Your sister is at peace just remember that and where she is nobody can harm her now.

And no matter what is said here God will not let you fall, for those that tell you any different are the ones who may fall.

Peace to you.

Answer 3

I am sorry for you loss and even more sorry that you feel the need to waste time and money on such shysters as these people who call themselves mediums. You might have thought you were not giving clues but these people make their money by picking up points from those people silly enough to pay them. Probably the reason you got such a vague answer was because you did not give enough clues. It is sad but your sister is dead and nobody can contact her and even if they could what could you do about it anyway. Remember her and the good times you had together and get on with your life

Answer 4

I am very sorry for your loss, death of a loved one is probably the most difficult thing we must attempt to deal with in our own lifetime. I do not assume to know what personal suffering and pain you must be feeling but please accept my sympathies and best wishes.

Equally I do not assume to know your thoughts and beliefs in an afterlife. It would seem that if you have visited a clairvoyant that you believe somewhat that there is a soul and that the soul passes to a place of peace after death.

If this is the case and that you know your sister to be of good character despite any of life indiscretions, then you should have no fear and accept that she is at peace.

I suggest that sometimes we have personal feelings of guilt in regards of not 'being there' to protect a loved one, that we may have been able to do more? Such things always will be but one must realise that one cannot be in all places at all times and that one cannot be held responsible for every action that happens in the world, this is somewhat an impossibility.

You, if you do believe such things will hopefully accept them over time and that you can find peace within yourself.

I hope my words will be helpful to you.

Answer 5

First of all, I am so sorry that you had to deal with such a thing as this. It is bad enough to lose someone just by some ordinary means but something this horrible is extra burdensome.

If there is any group of people in this country who need to be harshly dealt with it is these supposedly "gifted" people who are only in business to get paid. They could give a damn about your feelings about your loved ones and their place on their celestial journeys. This sounds like a pat answer for someone who can't come up with anything specific enough to make an impression.
I have lost loved ones and when they wanted to communicate with me, they did and not through some greed monger. Save your money and put them out of business.

Answer 6

What? She told you that. Do you know all "mediums" are different. By the way, once a spirit has passed on, there is no "place to get the special help she needed to get over this" She is a spirit! Look up the definition. Your sister is most likely in peace, but don't go to a medium to ask. There are different remedies to finding out.

Answer 7

That was a load of crap that they tell every person. It is a way to tell you things without telling you. Like i see them but i can't make contact. How east is it to say that... your sister is in a better place, fully healed and pain free. I guarantee it! You should think of your sister at her best and the great times you had not what some nutter said to take your money... i am sure your sister wouldn't want that... happy new year...

Answer 8

Brain cancer from a beating? Hard to believe.
You give me a lot of clues here. Clairvoyants are very good at getting clues. Strangely enough their customers do not realise that they give a lot of clues to the clairvoyant.
A perfect market!

Answer 9

All Clairvoyants and Mediums are phoney. There is absolutely no such thing as an afterlife. Don't give these charlatans your hard earned cash, they are leaches, preying on the needy. They are the scum of the earth.

Answer 10

In my church we have been taught that in the after life there are also missionaries. Remember when Jesus died and was gone three days? How did he preach to all of Hell in just three days? The answer is this: The missionaries for Jesus Christ were assembled and sent out during those three days.
Spirits also do missionary work. Your sister is probebly receiving some kind of missionary or other help for what ever is troubling her.

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