3 months ago my ex texted me a bunch of RUDE text messages. So, i threatened to file harassment charges against him..I also told him to PAy for the text he send on my phone (cuz i'm charged for texts)..He also told one of his friends to call me and harass me...I told him to pay all that he owed me and i told him i wouldnt mind if we didint talk anymore..We havent spoken for 3 months till last night he called me at 4 am..i didnt noe it was him cuz e CHanged his number..so when i called the number back, he answered...then he said he called to see "whats up" we "talked" for a while then he said he had to get off the phone to do somethin else..WHAt is his Problem????
2007-12-29 00:43:57 · 12 answers · asked by Ask ME 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thought after all the money i asked him to pay he would just LEAVE ME ALONE
2007-12-29 00:45:14 · update #1
Mentally wrong???!!!!????!!! Come on now you must be joking....there's men out there terrorizing their exes by stalking, threatening,physical abuse and in extreme instances murdering them so your "text messages and 4am call" pale in comparison to the actions of someone that has something really mentally wrong with them. What I'm thinking the real problem here is that the 2 of you are childish drama-queens trying to "come up" by finding ways to charge the other for some stupid text messages...my god...come on.
2007-12-29 01:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Torres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if there is anything mentally wrong with him, but he definitely has a problem.
A normal person typically moves on with there life after they have broken up with someone.
If he is ignoring your request that he not contact you, then he does have a problem which could become serious. I've heard of too many situations where ex boyfriends have caused harm to their ex girlfriends. They are obsessed or they are seeking some kind of revenge.
I don't mean to scare you, but you really need to take this seriously and confide in some people that you trust to get some advice on how to best handle this.
Save his text messages because you may need this as proof if you should decide to file a police report. Also, if he leaves voice messages on your cell phone or home phone save them.
If he is calling you he is probably also watching you without you knowing it. Take this seriously. Hopefully he is just being a nuisance and will eventually stop, but you can not be sure of that so you have to do all you can to protect yourself.
Perhaps it's time to contact the police or at least contact someone who can help you figure out how to handle this situation.
2007-12-29 01:06:21 · answer #2 · answered by Seldom Seen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he cant get over you and you talking to him, even if it's only because he called you first, isn't helping the situation. When a person still has feelings for someone (girl or guy) and the other person (ex) shows any sign of interest (talking, texting, etc) it gives them some kind of hope that they'll hang onto. If you are over this guy and want to move on without him, cut all ties to him period! Pay the cell bill yourself and block his numbers from your phone. If he calls & you answer, hang up immediately when you realize it's him. Good luck and move on!
2007-12-29 00:54:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A psychopath. He sounds greater suitable like a sociopath, yet nevertheless. You in maximum situations prefer to get far off from him as speedy as a threat and alert the police(and psychological asylum) in the previous he hunts you down and damages you or any of your pals or does some ingredient like this to all of us else. he's doing what psychopaths are probably to do. Be friendly to somebody, pretend to be all suitable, then as right away as they have gained what they needed, they drop the façade and turn out to be violent and risky. once you have revealed them, they only smash your existence in each skill a possibility for them and then, as quickly as they may be confident with what they have have been given accomplished, they pass away, and you will have the potential to by no skill see them back, besides the certainty that the wear and tear they made will maximum probably take an extremely long term to repair. they in many circumstances pass around, focusing on particular kinds of persons, like persons who haven't any pals, people who're susceptible minded, friendly, stupid or conveniently prompted. they're in a position to aim them human beings by utilizing skill of finding on the suitable way they walk. Creepy. Then they're going to easily shuttle around, leeching money and problems with people, leaving a path of ruined lives the place ever they pass. So get far off from this guy and get the police in contact.
2016-10-09 08:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is sick. I strongly suggest you change all of your numbers and have no contact. If he ever shows up some place where you are, leave with people around you and call the police.
2007-12-29 00:47:41 · answer #5 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess he just comes to you or remembers you for removing his frustration when he calls next time & you hear his voice just hang up...or rather why dont you change your number as simple as that
2007-12-29 00:51:49 · answer #6 · answered by syehusin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like he may have had one two many last night you should change your number and be careful who you give it to.
2007-12-29 00:49:21 · answer #7 · answered by jenniferb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound very stable, and you should not be talking to him at all. He's an "ex" for a reason.
2007-12-29 00:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Racer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he's controlling and violent; file for a protection order and stay away from him
2007-12-29 00:51:44 · answer #9 · answered by Juanita T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
charge him for harassment and be done with
2007-12-29 00:49:42 · answer #10 · answered by yiannis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋