i am in love with my best friend and i don't know how to tell him . once i told him i had crush on him and he said he had it too but we just kept being just friends . i really need help !
2007-12-28 21:50:49 · 10 answers · asked by marina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him if you are willing to take it to the next level. Or you can just plain old ask him if he still likes you "like that"...if yes, tell him that you do too. Then maybe make a move like hold his hand or something. If you want more help, email me.
~Andrew
2007-12-28 21:54:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your both scared of something. do you really like him or is it love? what will happen if you two break up? will you still be friends? i would like to help to the best of my ability but i am in the same sitution right now... and it really sucks! don't try to answer those questions everything will take its course and just be yourself. try asking him out if you feel it enough.
2007-12-28 22:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by tc_sherman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him in a relaxing environment, then when a good chance comes up, be forward and express your feelings for him. Don't beat around the bush or get nervous, just bite the bullet and tell him. If anything, he'll be happy about your forward and upfront manner.
2007-12-28 21:55:30 · answer #3 · answered by digital_bacon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he's your best friend and your intention should be to keep your friend and not to have a relationship that could break that friendship up. don't play with fire just because there happens to be one burning in your heart!
remember.... friendships are one of the most valuable things in life!!! they are worth way more than satisfying an infatuation!
2007-12-28 21:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by viensmevoir 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him again and he should figure it out soon enough
Then ask him if he wants to go out to a movie or something then see where it goes from there
<3 :]
2007-12-28 21:56:15 · answer #5 · answered by b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you
outta do it.
who better to love than your best friend? i'm telling ya, if he feels the same way great, if he doesn't, and he really is a freind, he'll be sensitive.
either way, in this situation, you have nothing to lose.
2007-12-28 21:54:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
We're in the same boat.
I'm not tellin, I think you shouldn't.
Let your actions speak for themselves, it's safer that way.
Chances are he already knows, but I know how you feel.
Just give more time to time, that's what I'm doing.
2007-12-28 21:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by sunoverla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to just tell him . i recently told someone i was in love with them and now things are great
2007-12-28 21:59:14 · answer #8 · answered by Cobra Emperor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in love? with whom..I assume with him...maybe he isn't prepared or he had found someone else already...but don't lose hope,,tell him you'll be waiting...just approach him on a day of laughter then flush it out to him...maybe it will be fine for him
2007-12-28 21:55:02 · answer #9 · answered by AskMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be frank to him.. so your heart wont be too painful to endure it...Its' better now or never... you will regret... but be prepared the friendship might end too...
Cheers
2007-12-28 22:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by Me To You 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋