Hair problem...?

Question

I think I've dyed my hair to its limit because now its feeling a little rubbery and when i brush it it falls out really easily. What should I do to get my hair stronger again?

Answer 1

You'll also need a wide-tooth plastic comb - you can get one anywhere for about $2 - a round brush with both natural and nylon bristles (these kinds really get a good grip on your hair when you blow it out), and a thin plastic comb with a long pointed handle for parting your hair. Buy large metal hair clips - the kind for styling. Look to a beauty supply store for these if the drugstore doesn't have any good ones. Thin hair ties are also very helpful. Try to get the kind without any metal in them, as those snag easily.

Use a good moisturizing shampoo and conditioner. Infusium 23 is great. Matrix and Biolage are also excellent, but a little more expensive. Even if you are loyal to your favorite brand, Infusium 23's leave-in conditioner is an absolute essential for anyone who straightens their hair. It has a texture like water and leaves no residue if used properly.

Shampoo twice to really get your hair clean. Never scrub, but gently massage your scalp. Pay special attention to your hairline - particularly around and behind your ears - because this is where your hair gets especially dirty. When you're satisfied, comb the shampoo through with your fingers to distribute it to the ends, but keep in mind that there's no need to vigorously wash the bottom half of the hair, especially if it's damaged. Be sure to rinse it all out, and be thorough but always gentle. Any trace of shampoo left in your hair will only contribute to dryness. Rinse for a full four minutes.

Condition your hair three times to get it really soft. Don't use too much, just enough to coat it evenly. Please, please, please do not condition the roots of your hair. The bottom half is all you need to do unless you're into major greasiness. The first time, condition normally, comb it through with your fingers and rinse it out. The second time use a (store-bought) deep conditioner mixed with your regular conditioner and leave it in for a while - tie your hair up to keep it out of your face and get your shaving/body scrubbing/whatever out of the way, and rinse it out. The last time you condition rinse it out with cool water (or as cold as you can tolerate). This will really help seal in the moisture and add shine. Rinse as thoroughly as you can! Accumulated conditioner makes your hair feel dull, heavy and greasy, guaranteed.

While your hair is still dripping wet, apply some Infusium 23 leave-in conditioner. Use only on the bottom half of your hair. Less is definitely more here. Use too much, and your hair will feel like there's a light spray in it. For the best results, put some in a spray bottle. A couple spritzes on each section is all you need. If not, pour a very little bit onto your hand and smooth it through your ends. Comb it through with a wide tooth comb.

Use a very, very small amount of serum or creme just on the ends of your hair. Make sure that it's oil free and not too heavy, and again, keep it well away from your roots. Squeeze it through between the palms of your hands.

Comb the front of your hair forward, and use the end of the thin comb to part it. The part will stay in place best if you make it while the hair is wet.

Wrap your hair turban-style in a towel, and just let it 'soak' for about 25 minutes. You can experiment with the time to see what works best for you.



[edit] TipsKeeping your hair short (just below the shoulders or shorter) and layered is the best way to go. Ask your hairstylist to thin it out, and your life will be so much easier. Get it trimmed often. Split ends are never attractive.
One length and completely straight is so out. Experiment with different cuts and add some body here, a few curls there. No matter how hideous or how damaged it gets, just know that you can always chop it all off and it will grow back.
If flyaways and static are killing what would otherwise be a great look, spray some Static Guard (you can find it at any drugstore) onto your comb or hairbrush, wait till it's relatively dry and comb through. You'll be amazed.
If you're going to use a shine mist, use as little as possible. Try spraying a small amount onto your hands and smoothing them over your ends.
About once a week, use a deep conditioner. You can pretty much use anything you want for this: sesame oil works wonders, but anything creamy or oily - mayonaise, bananas, mashed potatoes - works. Leave it in for as long as you want before getting into the shower, but be really really thorough when washing it out.
Wash and style your hair at night, and wrap it just before you go to bed. This really 'sets' your hair, so that in the morning you can go over it really quick with the flat iron and it looks even more polished and smooth.
Go as long as you can without washing your hair. Every other day is generally enough, but if you really can go up to four days, who's going to know? Just be careful - unwashed hair tends to smell offensive.
If your hair is just a bit greasy, hide it with a teeny bit of baby powder on the roots. Scrub it in like you would with a shampoo and comb through to distribute evenly.
Consider chemically straightening your hair to calm it down (and make flat ironing easier). Ogilvie and One'n Only are good at-home straighteners to try, and they aren't too harsh.
Keep your flat iron clean. If you've been using it on dirty hair (which you should never do, as it literally fries your hair with the oils and smells horrifying) it can accumulate a greasy buildup on the sides. Every once in a while, just go over it thoroughly with a damp cloth.
Obviously, straighten your hair in front of a mirror. Strategically placing a mirror behind you as well will let you see the style from the back, which is very helpful.
If you've ignored my sound advice and decided to sleep without wrapping your hair first, at least clip your bangs or whatever hair is in your face out of the way. Humans have a tendency to sweat and get oily while they sleep, which greatly contributes to greasy bedhead - not cute. Consider sleeping with a fan blowing on your face to keep things dry.



[edit] WarningsJust know that with the right cut, you can let your hair dry naturally. Hair-straightening-addictions will honestly take over your life. There is a time and a place to spend two hours on your hair, and it isn't for the laundromat.
Use a flat iron with discretion.
Always unplug your flat iron when you're done with it. Not only is it bad for the iron, you also risk burning down your place of residence.
Don't put your flat iron on a wooden or painted surface either because the heat will damage or discolor it. Use a folded up towel, pillow, old hat - whatever.
Humidity is your worst enemy! During the summer, keep your hair up or as short as you can stand it. Be well prepared for rainy days with hooded sweatshirts, hats and a sturdy umbrella. Remember that the better the flat iron, the better your hair will stand against humidity.
Heavy sprays and gels are your absolute last resort. Hard, crispy hair is downright unattractive, especially on straightened hair. Steer clear. With the right styling technique, you won't need them at all.

Answer 2

let the rubbery part of your hair grow out and then cut it off!
then use heat protection and go to a hair salon if u want it dyed. also use special strengthening hair shampoo and conditioner with follow up hair creme stuff, its those 3 step bottles u can get at any drug store.

Answer 3

Use a deep conditioner regularly. Leave it in for at least 5 minutes. Use a wide-toothed comb and comb it only when you have to. Don't use hair driers or flat irons.

The deep conditioner should make it somewhat stronger. But I recommend being really easy on your hair until it grows out.

I also recommend getting it cut so that the split ends travel up the hair shaft while its growing out.....

Answer 4

Some things to remember before dealing with your hair:

1) Dying your hair wears out the health of your hair.
- Unless you really feel the need for it, try not to dye your hair or bleach it. The chemicals will eventually over power your hair, causing it to become extremely feeble and weak.

2) Straightening or blow drying your hair dehydrates your hair.
- Hair dryers and straightners applies great amount of sudden heat onto your hair, causing the moisture to escape out. If you really feel the need to do this though, try using hydrating shampoo formulas from Herbal Essence or Lo'real :] (I found Lo'real to be the best--Lo'real Vive!)

3) Putting more chemicals to soften and strengthen your hair after it was chemically killed anyways will NOT make your hair any better.
- This seems to work for me whenever my hair feels dehydrated or rough--

a) Take a shower and give your hair and scalp a really nice and gentle wash with some shampoo (personal favorite--Lo'real Vive)
b) Wrinse out the shampoo; apply conditioner (Lo'real Vive conditioner!) and let it sit for 10-15 minutes (this will allow your hair to absorb in the conditioner's moisture and nutrients)
c) Wrinse it out gently and when you're done, let your hair air-dry so it can dry in peace without excessive heat forcing the moisture out.

Hope it helped! <3<3 Good luck!

Answer 5

stop coloring your hair immediately! [no matter HOW long those roots get..lol] get as much of your hair trimmed off as your willing to lose [just so the dead can begin to come off, and not split your hair all the way to the roots..that may be whats happening now]. try to get redken extreme shampoo and conditioner [works wonders!], and if you MUST use the blow dryer and straightener, please use heat protectant sprays, or creams. redken also makes an awesome product called 'anti-snap' for what your hair is going through. it is wonderful. i have used it before, and it really helps. [and smells great too!] you can get it at almost any salon. good luck.

Answer 6

wat more fish and seafood. get your vitamins, and purchase your shampoos from salons. get a haircut, and apply roagain to your hair. which makes new hair grow out, and make your hair stronger. don't use your hair dryer on hot when you blow dry ur hair. do warm or cool. i know it takes for ever, but it'll help a lot. try not to blow dry your hair every time you take a shower. dry it so hard with a towel, then let it dry by itself. do that like 3 times a week.if you're losing hair, it could be from stress too.
good luck!

Answer 7

Try to let your hair rest. Let is air dry and avoid using heat for a week. Do some hot oil treatments, and leave in conditioners. It should help improve your hairs texture and help it from breaking.

Answer 8

stop dying it and try not to blow dry and straighten it at the same time. and if you do aply any heat to it make sure you put in heat protection stuff like redken silk infusion or something like that.

Answer 9

well i think you should try that hairipy shampoo. it's might work. i hope i could help answer your question.

with love,
Allison