my parents are divorcied and my dad said that daturday i could hang out at his place a couple of days ago then yesterday i was at my dad's place cause my mom was going out and i asked if saturday was okay to hang out and he said it was okay then today my dad said that he might invite a girl over but expalined her as a friend so i said that was fine and told my mom now she said to me that i can't go even thought i said to my dad that having the girl over was fine now i can't go. Why is my mom doing this i said it was fine but my mom says that my dad should have left the day to me rather than with someone else.
2007-12-28 18:12:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my mom said that my dad was dating but i really didn't think he was
2007-12-28 18:13:31 · update #1
Yes, i'm sure your dad is dating. But it's not against the law, since your parents are already divorced. Adults like to have dates or companionship.
This doesn't mean he loves you less.
Perhaps you need not tell your Mom what Dad is doing or who he is seeing.
On the other hand, don't tell Dad what Mom is doing...
And if Mom asks a question about Dad, tell her you dont know... same for if Dad asks about mom.
Just keep the conversations about YOU and the parent you are with. No need to give information.
People who are divorced can sometimes feel bitterness or spite. And that is "why" your mom is doing this. She may feel angry with your father, and doesn't want him to be happy. Dont worry about it hon. It's not your problem.
Just don't tell everything you know, and things will work out! hugs
2007-12-28 18:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
due to divorced, you are suffering, and you will have to suffer, why your parents don't understand this point ?
2007-12-29 02:18:26 · answer #2 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋