Okay, I'm a good person. I've done countless things for other people. I've got aspirations to help the world, and I feel really bad when I see evil prospering in the world. Now I look around and I see EVERYONE, and I mean everyone getting their blessings. I have financial problems. I have been diagnosed with 'folliculitis' which is a hair follicle disease in which you get small boils on the back of your neck. I'm ornithophobic(in a big city btw). I havent had a relationship my whole life, and all of my 'socalled' friends, only want to be friends when it's conveniant. My college keeps getting my information wrong so I've been here, waiting for college for almost two years. Now I've been an avid follower of God, advised people when they were down to trust in him. Some on here might say that I'll get my blessing in time, but eh, I just dont' think so. I feel that God does hate me. I have barely anything good going in my life and it depresses me. Does God hate me?
2007-12-28 15:14:30 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Seems like you have a close life to Job , but through it all Job did not lose faith. And what Job faced was far greater then what you have faced so far, Job's faith was great but he also questioned Why/ Read Job and see what the Lord says to you. He will say the same thing to you He said to Job. God dose not hate you, He want you to say to your self, Lord thank you for these temptations that I face, How do you win the temptations you face, When you face them you go to Jesus and say Lord I am facing temptations that weaken me and my faith but Lord I know that is to make my faith in you stronger, and to make me stronger : Always remember this what we face or no matter who it is coming through you will win, no matter what, That is Jesus promise , If you weaken and drop your faith, then it will take you longer to gain it back, Jesus is a very busy Lord, Their are so many dieing as we speak and some are trying to kill their self and each other,and etc. How small is your temptations, Keep your faith and read Job. You are young in your faith , Learn Gods wisdom as early as you can in Life, It is one of Gods "gifts' to you, Ask the Lord ,always before you start to read the Bible for wisdom to understand what it is you read, Or you will never fully understand, what His wisdom is saying to you, you will always miss interpreted it, Gods speed no God loves All....
2007-12-28 15:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, God doesn't hate anyone.
If things are going bad in your life, that doesn't mean God hates you or isn't paying attention.
Maybe some optimism and happy, positive thinking could help you get through the tough times in life.
Try smiling and laughing more, if you are too serious about things just lighten up a bit. You say you've done many things to help others, so how about focussing on yourself for a change. Make yourself happy for a while and do things that make you feel special.
It's not enough to keep relying on God all the time and to think God hates you or blame God for everything going wrong in your life. Cheer up and look on the bright side of life.
2007-12-28 15:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by ChameleonGirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, God does not hate you. You are a believer, and you believe that god is love, and acceptance and forgiveness, right? So, how god could possibly hate anybody? And why, tell me, if you have been such a nice person and doing good all around you?
I'm not a believer, but I can tell you: you don't do good things in life to be loved, or accepted or to go to heaven. You do good things in life because it feels good and because that's the right path, my friend. That's your consciousness.
My suggestion is that you stop doing things expecting that "god" or anybody will pay you back.
If things are not being good to you, ask yourself why: maybe you have to change the way you do some of those things. If you didn't have a relationship is maybe because you were too shy? too blind to see who's around? too concentrated in yourself?
I'm sorry for your illness and sorry that you feel so frustrated and alone. But that's my advice: try to think (using logic) what you have being doing wrong, and try to change some things in your life.
Don't stop doing the good, just don't be around doing the good and asking for a reward. There is a reward, but it will come on time. Not from God, from life itself, and you'll feel it inside you. I hope it is soon.
Take care.
2007-12-28 15:54:57 · answer #3 · answered by SilviaTic 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. God doesn't hate anyone. I'm not a Christian, but all this is just bad luck. Maybe your just cursed. (-_- Bad things happen to good people all the time.) It's not fair, but life's not fair. In 7th grade, I do all the work and my mean partner gets all the credit. He does something wrong and I get blamed. Ironic that bad things happen to good people.
Don't give up living. Don't throw your life away because of some stupid curse. Your time will come and you will get your blessings. Until then, wait.
2007-12-28 15:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Moonlight Cherry Blossom♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that same question everyday! In the past week i have had my truck break down and cost 500$ (for the 4th time in 6 months) my cat who is like my child is very sick and might need to be put down (the vet bill is already at $1,000 in a week and not done yet) i was dis owned by my family on christmas and i need a root canal. This is a typical week in my life so i dont have an answer for you but know you're not the only one and things can always be worse.
2007-12-28 15:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by JJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should stop complaining about it, get off the computer, go out there and meet people and try to make some friends. You've never been in a relationship? That's not God's fault. Your friends are "so-called friends?" Go make some new ones who are good for you. By the way, are you a "so-called friend" to them?
Focus on some positive things instead of sitting around focusing on the negative. The more you sit here and think about what's wrong the more depressed you're going to get.
2007-12-28 15:25:54 · answer #6 · answered by amemahoney 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, contrary to what a lot of believers will preach, I must say what I feel to be true and it is this. God isn't causing this to come to you because you've done wrong. The devil is causing this to come to you because you've been doing right and you have made him mad. He hates it when somebody actually exercises their faith in God and hates it even more when they share it with others who end up doing the same. You just tell him to go on and get away from you because you are avid follower of God and see if you don't win this victory. It is through things like this that we get more strength and support from God. God doesn't want us to suffer with these things but He won't jump up and down on your head and tell you He's there for you either. So keep looking to God and give thanks to Him in all of your life's situations. He wants you to call on Him for strength and wisdom and He will never let you down nor leave you to fight your battles alone when you call on Him. God doesn't hate you, Satan does! Stand strong on what you believe in and turn this over to Him. Remember that faith is the victory and keep on keeping on. I use this little anagram as a reminder - FROG - It stands for "Fully Rely On God". It is a perfect way to solve any problem you'll ever have. Don't let the devil drag you down. Let God raise you up!
2007-12-28 15:36:40 · answer #7 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a God he does not hate you.
If there is no God then he can not hate you.
My friends who believe in God and those who do not agree that a course in positive thinking works. It worked for me.
You could start by writing down 3 things you really want on a piece of paper, carry it with you at all times and read it at least 3 times a day. Out loud if circumstances permit. This worked wonders for me.
If you go around believing that things will not work [a negative attitude] they will not. If you keep telling yourself what you really want then you load that into your subconscious and you approach things with a positive attitude and they are more likely to work out well.
Hope this helps.
2007-12-28 15:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by Chris R 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read the Bible lately?
The more you do for God, the more you will be persecuted.
These problems are coming from the Devil. He's mad becaause you do so much for God.
Don't worry.
You're on the right track =]]
Even if you don't get earthly blessings, think of the blessings you'll get in Heaven!
They will be HUGE.
Pray for protection and love.
Just keep doing what you're doing.
I'll pray for ya!
Ignore the atheistic and rude comments you'll get from other people.
2007-12-28 15:18:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it's just me but maybe God doesn't want you to go to college. I'm just saying.
Are you bright enough to go to college? I think that you just might be. So if you are so smart why not resign yourself to God's will, which might have something to do with . . . . I don't know . . . preaching the Gospel?
Personally, I am not sure there is time for a Christian to go to college. Time is getting short you know.
2007-12-28 15:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by Christian Sinner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋