well my bf jake and i have been going out since december 17 and i havent told my parents about him yet... i dont talk to them about that stuff so how do i bring it up to them?? im going to a party w/him in january if that helps you any...i told my mom about the party and who was going but thats all... so how do i tell at least my mom that i have a bf...
thanx bunches!!
<3himlots!!
2007-12-28 14:57:05 · 9 answers · asked by SamanthaAnn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw im 14 in 8th grade...
<3himlots!
2007-12-28 15:18:27 · update #1
btw im 14 in 8th grade...
<3himlots!
2007-12-28 15:18:50 · update #2
oops didnt mean to put that twice!!
2007-12-28 15:20:38 · update #3
If I were you I would just casually bring his name up in various conversations. Like...oh Jake likes that...or oh Jake said the funniest thing today...and eventually your mom/dad will ask you...is Jake your boyfriend? And then you can say...well yes as a matter of fact he is. :)
2007-12-28 15:02:43 · answer #1 · answered by Life is Good 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just have Jake and a couple of other people come over and introduce them to your parents. As the party approaches, tell your mother that you are going with Jake...."you know, the boy who was her last week".............
2007-12-28 23:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by united9198 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when your sitting down for dinner or just watching tv on a comercial break bring up the party. Reminder her that your responsible and then say something along the lines of oh and would you mind if my boyfriend would take me to the party. and if you want he can come over and meet you in advance. and wait for them to anwer.
2007-12-28 23:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by Britt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you should just tell them. Just say that your old enough and mature enough to be in a relationship. and tell them that your happy with this guy. They'll probably understand and accept it. Or you could just bring him in to meet your parents on the day of the party and just tell them than.
good luck =)
2007-12-29 13:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by RADness=)222 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i would say to ur mom if i wer u that u r getting older. and are interested in guys. in fact there is one in mind that i do hav a crush on. _____ and then i would see wat seh says. then i would say al the funny things u likle about him, and start talking about him each day and why u like himm.
then say mom i really like this guy (and she might hav grown fond of him too from ur stories, ) and that i think it would be great if u would let me ask him out, it seems like he really likes me etc.
then she hopefully says yes and then u can tell her that ur NOW going out and stuff. u might not hav to tell her u already are going out :0
if she says no then its really up to u and how u will respond with it. she might tell u to breakup but hey least theyres other guys.
i hope this really helped an goodluck <3
2007-12-28 23:08:18 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to talk with them pretty fast. you may want to say
you should have told them earlier, but were not sure how
to do it,it sounds like you are very young and you may also
bring that up in the conversation, be as polite and sincere
as possible.
2007-12-28 23:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jus be lyk 'mum im goin out' n den she will ask where n with who .. n jus be like ermm with my boyfren and shout it while yur walkin upstairs or summit lol dats what i do
2007-12-28 23:02:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell them! There's no other good way to do it. And if you do tell them, they are probably going to accept it more willingly than if you keep it a secret.
2007-12-28 23:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by John B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring it up to mom firs tshe probably wont freak out as much then shell probably mention it to your father so it will be easier to talk to them about hope things work out
2007-12-28 23:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋