Ok this kid that likes me, that I think is very annoying, got me a Christmas present. I just found out cause he gave it to my friend to give to me. I did not get it yet. Well anyway I dont like him and of course I will say thank you for the gift no matter how good or bad it is. But I dont want him to think I like him! I know this is a stupid question but you have to help me! At least tell me how to make him not like me .....well of course you cant make him stop liking me but.....you know! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH! Ok.....help in just anyway taht you can please!!!
2007-12-28 13:16:01 · 20 answers · asked by Emma 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
slowly day by day start being mor rude to him so he starts to get the message that u dont want him no more with out giving it straight to him and if hes smart enough hell get it have less contact with him so feelingsk inda die out in time
2007-12-28 13:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by vitaliy s 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As a guy i appreciate a woman that's truthful, its obvious he likes you and its just a matter of time before he drops the bomb shell but you can counter this and avoid embarrassing or hurting him coz remember "what goes around comes around" and keeping quiet about it will just irritate you more and more.
Approach him and ask him to coffee or just a walk (this will excite him alot) initiate the conversation on relationships ask him what he thinks about them if he does not return the question to you pickup from him and begin to declare your stand tell him that you are not willing to go into any relationship with him and that his gifts should not be a sign for anything. He will respect you for you honesty, i know i would
2007-12-28 21:52:43 · answer #2 · answered by guzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that you should thank him but if you didn't talk to him before just keep the status quo he'll get over you eventually... whatever you do don't go around bad mouthing him because bad things could happen 2 of my friends got in a terrible fight about something similar and they still do not talk... so be pleasant bt not overly nice as if you like him
2007-12-28 21:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by Poetry Loves Me 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't want him as a friend in your life period...then make a complete fool of him infront of his friends and your friends. However if you don't want to hurt him but you do want to get him to stop liking you, then just straight up tell him you don't like him, and that you appreciate the trouble he went through to get you the gift, but that you don't have feelings for him and never will.
2007-12-28 21:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Angel with a dirty face 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By accepting the gift - you've given him a way in...
In the future, do NOT accept a gift from someone you don't like - as you are sending him mixed messages. In HIS mind - the fact that you took what he gave you MUST mean that you like him ;);););)
2007-12-28 21:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through that MANY times! All you have to do is tell him! That's it, it's called HONESTY!
You can tell him that, you don't want to keep leading him on, and that he should move on. That's what I always say. It works, even though he might be a bit hurt, it's worth it... He'll know that you don't like him.
2007-12-28 21:20:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Say "hey can we just be friends ok" to him. Or talk about the guy you do like in front of him. Good luck;)
2007-12-28 21:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by no one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he asks u out just say no. u dont have 2 let him know u dont like him. just stay friends. same thing is happening with me. he got me some makeup and it was really really expensive make up. and it was really sweet
2007-12-28 21:20:31 · answer #8 · answered by salsa&chips 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The worse thing a girl can say to a guy
"You're like a brother to me"
2007-12-28 21:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Insane Wayne 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's harsh but you sound like your desperate. Just ignore him completely and whenever he asks you out say no I just want to be friends. Just ignore him unless it's something important.
2007-12-28 21:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋