My ex boyfriend still calls me, instant messages me, and texts me on occassion. He is currently in a new relationship and I'm not interested in him anymore. We broke up about 6 or 7 months ago and I'm trying to be friendly and all but it seems as though he contacts me to talk about his girlfriend. Every issue that goes on between he and his girl he tells me. He also wants to hang out when he is home from college. And when I turn our little hang out sessions down he asks me what more important things do I have to do than hang out with him. Its like he wants me to drop everything when he's home. The world does not revolve around him..I do have a life. He sends so many mixed messages...and sometimes he asks me questions, like if i have been with anyone other than him...personally I think it is none of his concern...I swear this guy is so confusing!
2007-12-28 13:15:58 · 8 answers · asked by Sienna 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All ex's are like that hun. They do it because it is part of there game. In there mind they are thinking how much that are missing you but at the same time that already know what they really want to do with you. My guess it that it all has to do with sex. A guy thing I say.
Our ex's like to test us and see if we will give in. Most of the time we do. Cause if we are single at the time some part of us is still attached to them as well.
Heres the thing, as much as your ex might talk smack about his girlfriend. Wait until your find out how much smack he talks about you to his girlfriend.
I some guys are tristed like that thou, wanting girls to be all over them.
My advise is don't be nice tell him how it is. Don't fall into his game. Just let him be and leave him in you past. Don't let him work you up with his drama when you got your own to deal with. Tell him he wanted the relationship he is in and now it is his problem there is nothing you can do to help him. If I were you I would avoid him as possible don't even talk to him. When he text you can read it but don't text back. When he messages you can read but don't message back. If he calls don't answer. After awhile he will get the hint you don't want nothing to do with him and that he his out of your life.
2007-12-28 13:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by "Foolishness" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 23:14:53 · answer #2 · answered by Heather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to be your friend. and if he thinks like the world revolves around him he has the biggest ego. but you should hang out with him every once in awhile cant hurt to be friends
2007-12-28 13:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe im wrong but it honestly sounds like he just wants to be a really GOOD friend. When people break up "friends" is always whats said they'll be but c'mon how many of the mreally mean it sincerely? not maybe but maybe he is different.
2007-12-28 13:20:23 · answer #4 · answered by mistista07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him if he wants to be friend he needs to stop asking personal questions and you don't want to be in the middle of his relationship. If he continues tell him you cant be Friends anymore.
2007-12-28 13:23:01 · answer #5 · answered by cw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you and him are finished, remind him of that and just say when he asks what is more important, "there are lots of things more important then hanging out with you. this should shut him up. he sounds like a jerk so its not really mean.
my ex still likes me as well, you just gotta ignore it.
2007-12-28 13:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what over is over but i guess the most sensitive answer would be to follow ur hart
2007-12-28 13:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by .X.L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to take a hike
2007-12-28 13:19:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋