i worry about everything since my mommy died i am scared to death to die is that normal?? explain!!
2007-12-28 12:49:38 · 13 answers · asked by chelbellelski 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm so sorry about your mommy's death. Of course it is normal to feel the way you do. Please talk to a trusted adult or go to a support group. Things will get better and I will pray for you.
2007-12-28 12:53:47 · answer #1 · answered by inkster7 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, honey....It's really normal for any child whose parent dies. Your whole world just got turned upside down and the person who was your most trusted ally is gone, so you're going to experience a lot of nervousness and worry. You didn't mention how old you are, but losing a parent at any age can cause all kinds of worry and fear. Are you close with your dad? If so, can you talk with him about how you feel? Do you have an aunt or uncle who you can talk to? It's really important that you express how you feel to someone and not deal with this alone. But, remember, there's nothing wrong with you, you're experiencing a very normal response to grief and loss. I know it feels scary but it's normal. And it will get better over time. The most important thing is that you share your feelings with people you trust.
2007-12-28 20:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by joyfulgirl1968 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Fear of death is very common. The loss of your mother wouldnt help the situation either but just know that there is somthing else after this life... beleive me
Trust in the higher spirit but concentrate on your life your living now and celebrate the life your mother had when she was here. I would talk to someone, a counsellor, etc if this continues to bother you.
Take care of yourself!
JoeSSW
2007-12-28 21:06:43 · answer #3 · answered by JoeSSW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's normal to be scared of dying since your mother died,but depending on how long it has been, like 4 or 5 years and you're still really scared I would seek counseling.
2007-12-28 20:54:34 · answer #4 · answered by *Country Girl* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sorry about your mother. My grandfather just passed away and after attending his funeral I feel really scared about dying as well. But everyone has a day to go and you mustn't spend your valuable time worrying over it. Spend your life while it lasts and when the time comes it'll be over before you know it.
2007-12-28 20:57:31 · answer #5 · answered by ▪Toronto Mɑple Leɑfs Fɑn▪ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is really normal especially since someone you were close to just died. You shouldn't feel bad at all a lot of people are afraid to die.... its normal.
2007-12-28 20:56:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Lots of people are scared to die, dear. Our life is like a story book. Our "once upon a time" is when we are born, And our "The end" is when we go to heaven.
And you ARE normal.
And i am very sorry about your mother's death.
2007-12-28 21:05:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is honey. I am sorry about your mom. You need to go through something called grief, that's where you cry and remember her often. It does get better as time goes on, the pain won't be as bad.
Do you have any adults you can talk to; father, aunts, siblings?
2007-12-28 20:54:02 · answer #8 · answered by MadforMAC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one can define normal but since you lost your mother, it is understandable you feel that way. i am so sorry for your loss, you need to get some help with grief or talk to a trusted friend about your feelings.
2007-12-28 20:53:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes you are normal I lost both of my parents 13 years ago and now I am married with kids and I worry about them all the time it is just natural good luck
2007-12-28 20:59:58 · answer #10 · answered by shelle4392 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋