She was young and had her whole life to look forward to and yet she took her own life. She was my friend we even had something, we never went out but still. I can't say for sure why she did what she did, but I do know that her mom was abusive and she felt like she was alone. There was nothing I could do physically because she was a friend on myspace, but i still feel bad because i feel like i should have done more. Will anyone join me and pray for her?
2007-12-28 11:41:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
i wasn't talking about the girlfriend i have now, she is my ex and she didn't kill herself it was miscommunication i guess, but she was suicidal and i just checked her myspace and it says that she is getting offered a job as a singer/actor and she doesn't seem suicidal at all now so maybe in a way our prayers did help :)
2007-12-28 14:37:22 · update #1
I am sorry to learn of your loss.
I will pray for your comfort and understanding. Please do not take on guilt which is not yours.
You will miss her and that is okay, it is good to miss a loved one because it signifies a precious bond. It would be wise to talk with some friends about this. It helps also to avoid deliberately focusing on a sense of guilt or misery. You will have enough sadness without that. Instead allow God to comfort your spirit and give you peace.
2007-12-28 11:50:58 · answer #1 · answered by thankyou "iana" 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
May she pass onto a peaceful place gently and she find rest.
Sometimes it seems like darkness and depression is overwhelming and you can't see that things can and will change. It's not your fault, young one. When someone can't see any hope, they sometimes decide to end their lives and you can't stop them.
Try and talk about your feelings, write them out, find a way to cope with your own feelings about this.
2007-12-28 19:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by Aravah 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I can't pray for her.
She is gone now.
But there are many others just like her.
Maybe you could try to help them.
I don't think preaching about god would
help them though.
2007-12-28 19:51:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jesusa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Heeeeeyyyyy little emo kid. How would she feel knowing you felt responsible for her death? If some one wishes to kill themself, they will do their best to see it happen no matter how hard their loved ones try to stop it. When some one is in the mind state where they wish to kill themselves, they will feel alone no matter how hard you try to be around them, because they feel no one understands them. I will send out a prayer for her, but please don't feel bad or responsible.
2007-12-28 19:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by Just me again 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Pray? Well I have my Wishing Hat, and wishes are the same thing as praying, so what is your first wish and I will wish it while wearing my Wishing Hat. I hope that makes you feel better.
2007-12-28 19:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Geisha Christ 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure what praying for her now would do, but I do worry about you and your emotional state after such a sad thing happening. I hope you have supportive people you can talk to there? I'm so sorry that happened, please do take good care of yourself ok?
2007-12-28 19:46:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
I will pray for you and for those that are left behind, and I am SO sorry that she took her life.
2007-12-28 19:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by AdoreHim 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Of course. Consider it done.
2007-12-28 19:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by ghostwolf 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Its too late to pray for her, dear one. Whatever decision she made with regard to Jesus dying for her sins will be the destination of her eternal soul.
Im very sorry for your loss. Don't beat yourself up as you are not responsible for anothers actions.
Make sure that YOU are prepared to meet the Lord. There is still time and I hope to see you in heaven.
2007-12-28 19:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by goinupru 6 · 1⤊ 7⤋
I will pray for your friend, and you, and all those who are hurting because of losing her. Please take good care of yourself.
2007-12-28 19:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋