you give them your heart and they don't seem to care?They tell you they love you but then don't want to see you today so we make up a dumb excuse and they hang out with their friends?Is it all really worth it when I stop by your house and you get so excited but don't want to ahng oyt with me the next day?tell me anyone is it all really worth all the damn trouble??
2007-12-28 11:29:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks all...
its a hard decision but i dont have it in me to dump him...anything else?
2007-12-28 11:35:26 · update #1
yes it happens alot....
2007-12-28 11:37:52 · update #2
aww...are you experiencing your first break up with someone you thought you loved?
here's the deal cupcake, it appears you are still a teenager and as such you aren't going to find you'r soulmate at this age because to tell you the truth you don't know what the hell you want at this age. it also seems you didn't date this person long enough to really be in love so granted that you think "hey, I've dated him for a whole month...WE MUST BE IN LOVE!!!!@$" you aren't.
And you wont' know what it is until you're older. I'm 18, I don't know what it is and frankly I don't care what it is right now. I'll find it when I'm ready. But in short, yeah it will be worth it. Look at other people and how happy they are. Be patient and find someone you can be compatible with.
2007-12-28 11:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not love. An on and off friendship, maybe. I'm tollorating friendship with a girl that's like that. The relationship is on her tearms. She wants my help, she gets it; but I've given up trying to make her need me. Maybe that's just me being a good person.
2007-12-28 19:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by TimeSpaceWitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for ten years...While I love spending time with my hubby...I don't like to spend every waking moment with him. It's ok to have some time apart....But it's not cool that he's making up excuses. Tell him to be honest...If he's not up for some 'us' time then just say so....if he does it a lot...then take a step back and review your relationship.
2007-12-28 19:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea this is tough..
i've come to find out that if people want something bad enough they will make time.. this is so true..
why break your back for someone who doesnt even really care about you or appreciate you?..
its a tough call
you have to ask yourself if they really appreciate all that you do for them..
good luck
peace
2007-12-28 19:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by victor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
know how you feel. and help many friends. its not worth it. i meanstick around for a little more and tell em how you feel but then jus leave it alone move on and then when they come crying back to you see how you feel. loves complicated theres nver the right answer.
2007-12-28 19:34:40 · answer #5 · answered by tina s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't really sound like love to me. real love is worth the trouble. but real love requires two peoples commitment. it sounds like your the one putting in all of the effort.
2007-12-28 19:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Chit P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Life is too short to deal with that nonsense. Leave this person. You will find someone else, someone who is worthy of your love.
2007-12-28 19:33:39 · answer #7 · answered by Tamara Easter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how you feel, its not love. Love doesn't work like that =] You'll find someone better.. & they'll show you what it means to be "in love."
2007-12-28 19:34:23 · answer #8 · answered by Brii. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know in your heart and the feeling you get around them weather its worth it or not !
2007-12-28 19:32:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it really does not sound like he cares that much for you and maybe you do need to seriously consider breaking up with him ---- best wishes
2007-12-28 19:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋