Okay SO i LIke this guy but I definantly know he has a girlfriend. He flirts with me all the time and he acts like he likes me but him and this girl have been dating for 3 or 4 months. And there is another problem. He's black and I'm white. My family would freak out if they knew that I liked him. My dad would probably disown me. I dont really care about what other people would think but I just don't know if i'm up to dealing with something like that. Anyway I think he knows i like him and the day he found out, his girlfriend came up to the store. She has been hanging around the store where me and him work together a lot lately. Anyway I'm a sophmore in highschool, he is a senior, and she is a freshman in college. What should I do?
2007-12-28 10:36:46 · 14 answers · asked by !~!JeWeL eLiZeBetH!~! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly it isn't up to you. I would let him decide while you still flirt and do your thing. As far as your parents go...if they see that you are happy and he is a descent guy and makes you happy then they should respect it. But considering you are a sophmore and he is a senior they are definately going to be over protective. So if he decides to leave his girl for you then I would try to work something out with your parents where he can come hang out at your house. They can get to know him and you guys can start on a good note. As far as the racial thing..it is 2007 the last time I checked. We have a black man running for president for crying out loud. Your parents need to grow up.
2007-12-28 10:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just move on. I am black and I know that my daddy would freak out if he knew that I was dating a white guy because he believes that everyone needs to stick with their own kind. I think that is the biggest load of bull I've ever heard but I do it. I don't want to put up with anything like that either that's why I stick to my own kind. Call me nuts but I really think that you should do that so that you don't have to deal with that type of drama. Are they racist? I know what that's like, I have an uncle who's racist and I'm embarassed to go places with him because he yells the nastiest things out when he sees a white woman or man, and I have to literally tell him to shut up. Unfortunately you can't do anything about this so just save yourself all the trouble.
2007-12-28 10:43:47 · answer #2 · answered by Your Love Is One In A Million It goes On 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but you really need to back off of him. It's nothing racial, but the guy has a girlfriend! He's obviously leading you on, and as much as it might hurt for you to think it, in my opinion, this guy would never be worth any self-respecting girl. He has a girlfriend, and is obviously happy with her (why would he still be with her if he believed him and you were worth it??). But if he honestly cares, you need to ask yourself if you really care about HIM. Is the player really worth your time, or is this just another guy?
Good luck!
2007-12-28 10:45:11 · answer #3 · answered by More Dead But More Alive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to stereotype but I know that some black guys have a problem sticking with just one girl. Indeed it already sounds as if he isn't really interested in the girl he is with now. Too many negatives about this situation - stick with a culture you know about and can trust and no I am not a racist - promise!
2007-12-28 10:41:57 · answer #4 · answered by curiouscanadian 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
LAEVE HIM ALONE UNLESSS HE LEAVES HIS GIRL FRIEND...THE HE REALLY LIKES YOU
I WAS LIKE YOU I REALLY LOVED THIS GUY N ACTED LIKE HE WAS INTERESTED IN ME
BUT THEN I FOUND OUT HE HAD A GIRLFRIEND FOR 3 YEARS
SO I KNEW I COULD BREAK 3 YEARS APART
BUT ITS JUST 3 MONTHS FOR YOU..NOT MUCH ITS NOT THAT SERIUOS
BUT THE GUY I LIKE DID LIKE ME
BUT FOR NOTHING SERIUOS
KNOW HE HAS A BABY
AND NO GIRL FRIEND BECAUSE HE LEFT HER
I THINK I WILL ALWAYS HAVE A CRUSH ON HIM.EVEN DO THAT WAS LIKE 4YEARS AGO
BUT KNOW IM HAPPILY TAKEN FOR 9 MONTHS WITH SOME OTHER GUY
SO MY ANSEWER IS WHAT I SAID LEAVE HIM ALONE UNLESS HE LEAVES HIS GF AND DONT WORRY ABOUT THE WHITE N BLACK
HIS YOUR BF NOT YOUR PARENTS BOYFRIEND
2007-12-28 10:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you need to just wait out the whole g/f thing. He is taken and if you like him that much then i know that you wouldn't want to break up this relationship that makes him happy. It won't hurt you too wait it out and if you still like him AFTER his relationship then go for it!
2007-12-28 11:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave him be he has a girl and your parents and yourself would be srained it is just not worth it and what if you got together and ti did not work out what then? leave him be ... as for color so what but you are not in a relaishonship so why stir trouble
2007-12-28 10:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by pearl_hoff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
why would u want to get in a situation with so many problems?
2007-12-28 10:55:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont. if hes w/ another girl and
flirts w/ u...wat do u think hell do
wen hes w/ u? tis good tht u dont
care bout wat ur family or any1 esle
thinks. he kinda sounds like a bit of a player.
so i would pass on him.
2007-12-28 10:44:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm the age diffrence is alot n also the experience....
2007-12-28 10:43:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋