2007-12-28 09:30:51 · 18 answers · asked by Miss Lady 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Ramadan
i am not married but if my husbad were to die i know i would cry for weeks i probably wouldnt even re-marry. my mom has a friend whos husband died and i feel so bad. she breaks down when they talk about him. i dont want my kids without a father.. cuz i know how that feels.. and no one can replace him.. and there are chances they might not like their new father and im not going to let my kids suffer over a man.. so i would be just fine with me and my kids only.. i would move on with life after i accept he is gone..
2007-12-28 09:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by uniqu3(skyline) 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Oh my I don't even want to think about it cuz I love him so much and he is my true love and soul mate. It took us both a long time to find each other and I can't imagine being without him. I think when something like that happens you have to draw on the strength God gives you and knowing he's in a better place would give me some joy after I got over the deep pain in the beginning. I don't think I would ever remarry though cuz I honestly don't think I would ever find another man that is like my husband and I wouldn't marry if it wasn't true love.
2007-12-28 18:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Omg I think about that and I cry, It would be so hard I don't know how I would pick up the pieces but I know my husband would want me to move on and to be happy and to be strong in my Islam. OK thats enough this question is making me cry lol I love my husband so much!!!.
2007-12-28 17:36:57 · answer #3 · answered by FeshFash 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I dont even want to think about it but here goes. If my husband passed away earlier than expected I would throw myself into my two little boys. Thankfully one of them looks just like him 100%. And the other has my husbands humor and personality!! I would have to know that I was truely luky to even have such a wonderful man in my life. He is my joy and the love of my life. I hope we have many many years together.
2007-12-28 17:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Asalam Alaikum
This is something I have thought about alot. My husband hates this conversation but I have no Muslim family that would help me, heck I don't even have any non Muslim family that would help me. So I have made a plan for myself. If my husband was to die(Allah forbid) I would return to Egypt to my husband family. After my idah and I had time to grieve I would marry someone in his family. My husband family are really great mashaAllah and love me and my kids very much. I would want to keep the kids and my self in this family.
2007-12-28 18:02:34 · answer #5 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Id be Lost for quite a While.
Id Have Pictures Of Him/ His Letters/ Cards/ To Remind Me of him.
Ill Remember The good times, & block out any bad Times,
Id share the Memories with others who wants to hear it.
& Move Foward, Carrying thouse Great memories.
ps,
I gave you a STAR !!!! you deserve it, Great question hon.
2007-12-28 18:35:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It's not something I think about.. but something that is a big worry. I always worry about something happening to my husband or son.. or anyone in my family. I'd be devestated.. but one must move on. My brother lost his wife 12 years ago and it was a big struggle for him.. and would be for anyone having to go through it. I can't relate to anything like that so I really don't know what I would do.
2007-12-28 17:47:02 · answer #7 · answered by Cupid 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i would see first the situation like if i had kids i would do my best to support them and if i was single i would probably live with my parents for a lil while and the i think that i would start my life again
but only allah knows what will i do in what situation in the future
peace
2007-12-28 17:37:05 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Layla ♥ 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Oh my, I've been married for 15 years, I don't even want to think about it. I guess when/if the time comes you'll pull through. We all have strengths in us that we don't think we have. So I have faith!
2007-12-28 17:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by Muschi 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
astagfurAllah who knows what I would do. I guess I would go live with my husbands parents in Saudi. Do you know my husband forbid me to ever get married in my life he something happens to him? lol! is that not insane
2007-12-28 23:50:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋