i mean he emails me but i don't think he likes me. what should i do?
2007-12-28 08:45:52 · 37 answers · asked by marleyjam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to him tell him y u dont want to go out if he really likes u he will understand maybe over time if ur ok wit it ur friendship will grow into somethingmore
2007-12-28 08:49:30 · answer #1 · answered by choclatedove107 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight. Uh...you "liked him forever"...and apparently didn't have the courage to tell him that or ask him out.
But apparently what you were looking for was for him to ask you out, and it finally happened...apparently after quite a long time. So...he finally did it. And you told him NO? Now you "don't know if he likes you or not". Are you serious?? He'd probably like you a lot less if he knew you totally blew him off by telling him No, when what you apparently indicated before (and for a long time) is that you *wanted* him to ask you out. Unless you're one of those "Oh, I like them...but that's all" kind of people that only likes somebody in their thoughts.
It's kind of hard to 'undo' such a No, because that's quite a final answer. As a guy, if a girl told me that...and then came back later and tried to do the, "Oh, I'm sorry...I didn't realize what I was saying. I wasn't thinking" game...I wouldn't want much of anything to do with them. I think you would feel the same way. I wouldn't blame him if he didn't like you. That's not trying to "be mean"...that's factual and how the real world works.
2007-12-28 08:54:16 · answer #2 · answered by sls.spec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you rejected him in the first place is he is a boy that you've liked for a long time? That was a very silly thing to do but I guess it was your choice to make. If he stills emails you then there is a chance that he still likes you but I can't determine that because I am not the one who receives his emails. To see if he still likes you, all you need to do is look and read the messages and check how he writes to you, what he says to you, and if his emails were the same as they were before. Hope this helps you. Take care.
2007-12-28 08:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u need to talk to him and say this:
-i hesitated because i wasn't ready. i wasn't ready because i also like you and i simply panicked, and that happens. so i looked for stupid excuses to why i shudn't go out with you.. so do u still feel the same way? (or something like that)
(i went through this but my case seems more serious. i talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore and then a few days later he came and talked to me and told me he was lying because he was too scared to tell me the truth and scared i might break his heart again) just go ahead and do whatever u think u need to do, this is not as serious as other things, if the worst happens like he says he doesn't like you anymore (which he probably wont cuz ppl don't get over ppl that fast if they are still in contact) then, both of you will get over it quick.
ask him out, be modest;)
2007-12-28 08:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by KarenDi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y say no?? u properly confused the poor lad... think just as he got his confidence up 2 ask u out [thinkin tha u wud say yes] u shut him down even though u like him?? talk about mixed singals! if u want 2 go out with him then ur goin 2 have 2 make the 1st move because he probs fink tha ur messin him round!
2007-12-28 08:53:53 · answer #5 · answered by tailette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, ask yourself why you said "no" to a guy you've liked forever, as you put it. You sent him signals, he asked you out, & you turned him down. If he didn't like you he wouldn't e-mail you. Be honest with him as to why you turned him down when he asked you out. You're the only one who can answer that question. Don't be a player or you will remain dateless.
2007-12-28 08:51:38 · answer #6 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone ask a person out if they didn't like them?
He likes you. Rejecting him would have made a blow to the ego, but if you ask HIM out this time and tell him you were just nervous, things will be fine.
2007-12-28 08:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Astrid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, why did you say no? He obviously likes you if he asked you out. You should have said yes. Tell him you couldn't think straight because he was dazzling your mind and you want to say yes now.
2007-12-28 08:48:22 · answer #8 · answered by +:GoodLife78+ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it some more time, that's all you can do outside of asking him out yourself...........pick an event that everyone in the world attends and ask him to meet you there so you can kick it with him.
2007-12-28 08:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by 00silky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him why did you say no? Would you ask someone out who rejected you once already?
2007-12-28 08:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by odandme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋