me and my boyfriend just broke up like a month and a half ago and im still not over can someone plz help me get over him!!!
plz and thk yew*~!
2007-12-28 08:44:24 · 29 answers · asked by gracynsmith 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hah trust me if you really liked him you want get over him for a while... but how about dating other people//
2007-12-28 08:47:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey, i had the same problem, I kept thinking about him all the time, trying to find ways how to speak to him, but I told my best friend, and I had a good cry, and told her how I felt, and it helped, and then I went out for a drink, and found a really hot guy looking at me, and that was like 2 months ago, and were still together, just try moving on, and tell someone how you fell, try to forget about him, and sometimes if it helps, think about all the stupid things he's done, and what you dont like about him, it worked for me. Im sorry you broke up, and I hope these help, if not, im sorry xx Nadine xx
2007-12-28 08:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the best thing you can do is try not to be alone where you can think about the relationship and hang out with your friends as much as possible and talk to people about your problem of getting over him. You just need to remember that there are so many other great guys out there in the world and the area around you that are single and are great guys. You would be surprised to find out just how many decent guys are actually around hidden from view. Good Luck! Hope my advice has helped you... I have been getting over a hard relationship myself and I found it best to use what I have writen in this letter of advice to you. Happy New Years!
2007-12-28 08:51:23 · answer #3 · answered by silvermann40 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Babes I no what your going through! It takes time to get over someone you loved! The best advice I can give you is spoil yourself go out have fun with your mates surround yourself with familly and friends talk to someone about how you feel! Time is a healer that all I can say things happen for a reason just hold your head up high yeah remeber the good times but think of what you want to do in life and reach out and grab it there is no one holding you back!
2007-12-28 08:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by Melly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you've got to believe that everything happens for a reason maybe this relationship was moreof a liability than an asset. Maybe it was holding you back preventing you from giving your all at work or at school and now is your chance to focus on you and get yourself and your life together. I realized that was the reason ofmy breakup and although it hurt I realized it was for my own good. I just wish that my relationship could have ended sooner because it created a bigger mess which wasn't easy to clean up.
2007-12-28 08:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by ms.l_thoms 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay busy with friends & family and re-do your "look" get a new hairstyle, new clothes, change it up! Treat yourself! Use this time as an opportunity to read a book, learn something, stuff like that.
You will be so busy you will not miss the relationship and soon you will not be hurt by the breakup any longer.
Good luck!
2007-12-28 08:49:30 · answer #6 · answered by kjay_39 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Spend more time with friends and family. Don't go looking for another man to fill his place because it's not fair to you or the new guy. I know a month and a half may feel like forever but give yourself some more time!! It will get easier!
2007-12-28 08:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by netters_316 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Who broke up with who? Try going to the library and taking out a book called..."He's just not that into you" if he broke up with you...actually even if he didn't it's still a good book. I read it 2 years ago and it helped me not take relationships so seriously when they aren't serious. It helped me understand things better. Maybe it might help you.
*Just try the library..they have tons of books there about relationships. Maybe you need to work something out within yourself in order to move on. Hugs and best of luck.
2007-12-28 08:49:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It takes time. Try to stay busy. Join a gym, take a class, hangout with friends, do some things you were not able to do when you were together. I would'nt advise jumping ringt into another relationship. You're only bringing more pain to yourself and the person you're with. Trust me, I was there.
2007-12-28 08:54:58 · answer #9 · answered by CARFIX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way I could help you forget him is not an option because I'm already married (lol). Have you thought of taking a small trip or starting an exercise regiment? It worked for me many moons ago.
2007-12-28 08:48:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends on how long you were in a relationship with him and how much you invested in the relationship. Anyway I know a heart needs time to heal and it is sometimes scared to be alone and to start all over.
2007-12-28 08:49:00 · answer #11 · answered by ANGELA L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋