i've been going out with my boyfriend for a little more than a year now. since we started going out he has always been the jealous type. before i met him and best friend was a male and my boyfriend hated it. he even broke up with me one time for it. (he thought i had feelings for my friend). i reallly like my boyfriend and i try to tell myself that he is this way because he likes me a lot and wants me to himself. thats a good thing. itsn't it?
2007-12-28 06:26:12 · 6 answers · asked by geminicutie93 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A little jealousy is okay and actually healthy for any relationship. If he cares about you he should be a little jealous but you need to make sure it's not crossing over the the controlling aspect. To be breaking things off is rather extreme. Make sure you're being sensitive to his thoughts and not talking about your friend all the time and make sure you're not doing things with your male friend that you do with your boyfriend...like going to your boyfriends favorite restraunt or watchin his favorite movie. Your boyfriend associates those things as romantic things so will assume you have feelings for your friend. Make sense?
2007-12-28 06:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by blessed mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not a good thing, it is a very immature thing. It means he does not consider you to be a partner in life, but a possession of his. You should know that it will only get worse as time goes on. You will find where you fit in with his other possessions; like somewhere behind his car and definitely not equal to his big screen TV. You should find someone who cares for you as a person and not just another of the things he owns.
2007-12-28 06:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by Wiz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just overprotective of you because he doesn't want to lose you. He is scared that you may be unfaithful to him and leave him, and he doesn't want that. If you are really bothered by it, talk to him about it. Sit him down when it's just the two of you and explain that what he's doing is making you uncomfortable. Hopefully he will understand and back down a little.
2007-12-28 06:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by trivkc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
insecure much? but I would make sure I wasn't putting off the impression that I talked to my friend much. Just don't mention his name to your boyfriend, but stay bffs with your friend. Friendships will always last longer than relationships, if your friend is always there for you, stay by him. He would probably do the same for you. If your relationship is really in that much jeopardy because of your friend, explain to your boyfriend he is like your brother.
2007-12-28 06:32:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really no.Just imagine your mom wants to give u a hug & he insults her.Tell him to stop being so possesive ur not a thing.If he does not like it the door is right there & it's idiot proof
2007-12-28 06:35:05 · answer #5 · answered by namuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur boyfriends is only being jealous because he likes you and because he is selfish, he is selfish because he wants to have u all to himself. u have to tell ur bf that if he doesnt stop being jealuos , that then its over.
-♥jenny♥
2007-12-28 06:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋