my bf used 2 text me alot and cal me all the time. and he was always on msn. and he use to say the nicest things to me.
...... NOW HE DOESNT.
he doesnt text me. he doesnt call me. hes never on msn. he doesnt say nice things anymore.
and
(he doesn answer my texts. he doesnt answer my calls.)
were live 3 hours away from each other so we cant meet up also. and we dont have school right now. its the winter break. and our anniversary is coming up. im stuck!!!
2007-12-28 06:21:00 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Long distance relationships are hard especially when your so young. Dont sweat it, if its meant to be it will be and if not there are plenty of other fish in the sea.
2007-12-28 06:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by TheLight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say this but it could be possible. You two live 3 hours away and can rarleyu see each otherr over the break right? IF he doesn't answer you when you try to reach him he may have found someone else that he has taken interest in. But this is only one possibility. There are lots more like something happened to hjis phone or internet conection. If you live some where were theres been really bad cold weather he may have lost power or eletrical conections like phone and internet service. Don't try to call or text him all the time though just every once in awhile like every couple of days and see what happens. Good Luck.
2007-12-28 06:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by browne_eric14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well personally I think he is telling you something by not texting, calling or taking your calls. There are a lot of guys that don't have to guts to come right out & tell a girl that they don't want to be with them anymore, so they just don't do anything. No more calls, no more texting, nothing. Take the hint hun & move on with your life.
I am sorry to say to you, but it is better to get your eyes open now then keep wondering & worrying & anging on to something that is no longer there.
2007-12-28 06:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he isn't sick, and this has developed over a period of time, I would say he has cooled off and isn't really your bf any more. Just text and ask if that is the case, say you want an answer one way or another. Then do not text again, if he has second thoughts your silence will get him in gear.
2007-12-28 06:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough situation. Maybe try asking another friend to see if he/she can contact your bf and set things straight. From the looks of it, it seems he is not interested in you anymore. How long has he been ignoring you? Maybe there is a legit reason why: loss of cell phone priveledges, internet, etc
2007-12-28 06:25:13 · answer #5 · answered by Meygaera 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh no! That sounds bad. Well, i would talk to him and ask him why he is saying mean things, and if he says some stupid reason like " Just for fun" or "Cus i want to" , break up with him. You could ask him, "for our aniversary , the present i want is for you to talk to me and be nice." You could also call him instead of him calling you. So just talk to him. Let him know about all this. Let your feelings out.
2007-12-28 06:28:45 · answer #6 · answered by jhamltn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im SO sorry sweetheart, but he's probably cheating on you. Send one last text that says: "Just wanted to tell you to come by on Thursday (or whatever day your anniversary is on) to pick up your trash (aka all of his belongings, pictures, or stuff he's given to you). If you aren't here by Friday, it's all going to Goodwill". If he ANSWERS, that means he's been ignoring you and most likely cheating on you. If so, send his stuff to Goodwill anyways.
GO GIRL!
2007-12-28 07:42:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably found someone else who lives closer to him or feels a stronger bond. Still he could be man enough to tell you exactly what's going on. Since he's not, it's up to you, if you feel that it's just not going to work, to break it up with him. I wish you the best.
2007-12-28 06:27:14 · answer #8 · answered by DiscoBoyLives!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not texting him or calling him for a day. if he doesnt try then go another day doing that. and if he still isn't bothering then he might not be into you anymore. if you're texting him a lot and hes not replying then you might be driving him away and hes getting annyoed. but then dump him if this continuess
2007-12-28 06:54:46 · answer #9 · answered by merebear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety you are in a tough posion right now well i guess like maybe you can go to his house and talk to him or call his house im sure someone will pick up if that doesnt work than honey i think he moved on
~sorry~
2007-12-28 06:25:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋