its not secret at my schooll that im guy crazy. i date alot of guys and i have a boyfriend right now that i really like. but i have been friends with this girl for 6 years and just recently figured out she was bi. i was totally okay with that cuz she is the same person but she told a closer to friend of mine shes in love with me and has been for a long time...
iv droped big hints like making sure my bf is around when she is and holding his hand and talking about him alot to her but she doesnt get it. and she knows im not bi/gay but she wont lay off. i dont know how to get it through to her im not interested.
advice?
2007-12-28 06:14:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anarchy please 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you treat unwanted attention from your female gay and bi friends the same way you'd treat unwanted attention from your straight male friends.
You tell her very clearly. "I like you as a friend. I am not interested in anything more than your friendship. If you pressure me for more, then our friendship is over."
If she won't take no for an answer, then you follow up on your threat. You end the friendship. You don't speak badly about her or gossip about her to others. If anyone asks why you aren't friends anymore, all you need to say is "we didn't want the same things in a friendship" or "we've grown apart and have different interests"
2007-12-28 06:26:06 · answer #1 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her exactly how you feel. If you have to write a note or an e-mail instead of telling her in person, then do so. Sometimes dropping hints just isn't enough. Some people just don't give up until they get straight answers.
2007-12-28 06:18:23 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylynn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of you need to attend..and tell purely a sturdy pal or 2. no longer each and every person will understand you, maximum persons nevertheless think of that being gay or bi is a foul element with the aid of fact the bible says so. however the decission is purely yours: Do you sense waiting to regulate all that bullying? Then, bypass on.
2016-11-25 22:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by boshell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her flat out that you aren't interested in her, nor are you ever likely to be. Don't be nasty or rude about it, but do try to make sure to get your point across. You've tried hinting around at it, but she hasn't taken the clue. Just reassure her that you still want to be her friend, but you want to make sure that she's your friend for the right reasons & isn't trying to be your friend just to try to get you to go out with her.
If she gets angry or if she were to stop hanging out with you, then don't worry about it. When she's ready to be just friends with you, she'll come back. If not, well... it looks like she wasn't friends with you for the right reasons.
2007-12-28 06:22:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her.
Tell her you looooove boys and not girls.
Text her or something...
it would make it easier!
2007-12-28 06:20:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just come clean about your feelings and try to be nice
2007-12-28 06:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by eyez 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is doing anything innappropriate, just say no.
2007-12-28 06:18:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋