I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months and well lately our relationship has been shaky, but how do i know i am in love? i am starting to doubt i ever was in love with her,
2007-12-28 05:54:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you don't fall out of love. Love is not something you can easily just fall in and out of. You don't love her when you are doubting so much just because it is shakey. All relationships get shakey at some point and if you can't hack it, you are not in love.
2007-12-28 05:58:51 · answer #1 · answered by hi_punkin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may not be in love. If you are having second thoughts, it could be the relationship is winding down. That can happen when the early stages of lust and mystery wear off and you get to know the real person...you may find that you just have very little to connect you.
That said, real love goes through stages, and often has rough patches, that test your true feelings. It is different for everyone but when you can't imagine your life without another person, and are willing to compromise and care more for their needs than you do your own at times, then you will know you are in love.
2007-12-28 14:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, I think in every likelihood you weren't in love with her. That's okay, you can't force love, it should just flow from within naturally. I've only been in love once, but I've been infatuated plenty of times. You can definitely tell the difference. You become a completely different person when you're in love. It's amazing, it's like you've been possessed by an angel instead of a demon, and you are just warm and smiley to everyone and everything, you laugh harder and more frequently, you get the shakes, the butterflies, and the willies quite easily, and there is just nothing to compare it to.
2007-12-28 14:00:09 · answer #3 · answered by Dan in Real Life 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am in love with my boyfriend... on days i dont see him, its like omg, ill never ever see him on november the 9th 2007, one time i found out i wasnt going to see him in town, and i just randomly burst into tears, i find it really hard not to talk about him, he can calm me down no matter whats happened, he makes me laugh, hes a complete idiot but i love him anyway, i would literally do anything for him, hes my best friend.... god theres so much more i could say...
if you feel like that then you are in love...
2007-12-28 14:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by omgkatiekilledkenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love is hard to quantify in words, and it sounds cliche but ....a person KNOWS when they are in love! On the flip side, sometimes it takes a while to figure out that you aren't and never were. If your questioning it...then you know what the answer most likely is.
2007-12-28 14:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NNNNNNNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOOOO! I went out with my girlfriend 4 2 years and we broke up and never saw her again... And when u r in love if you break up u will get back to her as soon as possible and we did not....so NNNNNNNNNNOOOOOOOOOO
2007-12-28 14:41:31 · answer #6 · answered by Screw u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think about her all the time, and you enjoy her company, you are still in love with her.
You just have this feeling when you feel like your in love.
2007-12-28 13:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Pi-Chi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question it, then it is not love. When you fall in love, you just know.
2007-12-28 13:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's the only one your thinking about.
The one your always nervous around.
The one that always makes you smile.
2007-12-28 13:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, You'll know. When you see her your heart will flutter..
2007-12-28 13:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by *~*TooPretty4You*~* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋