ok theres this dude i like and he is realy cute,and he is my bestfriends cousin, well he has a g/f, but the problem is that he wants to hit it with me, i just dont think is right for a guy with a g/f to have sex with a nother girl that he bearly knows.what should i say to him? should i go 4 it or not?
is jus his looks that are driving me crazy! its making me say yes but idk!!
2007-12-28 05:47:03 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NONONO - if he will cheat WITH you he will chea ON you!
...unless you are just looking for a one night thing...
2007-12-28 05:50:12 · answer #1 · answered by --Wedded--Bliss-- 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you decide you go and do that, you are just disrespecting yourself. What if you were in the girlfriend's position? Doing that kind of thing to others, the karma will only come back and bite you in the ***. I understand what is like to really want to be with a good looking guy, but ask yourself this. Think about the consequences you will reep from this. All because you thought he was cute. What if you find out it wasn't what you expected. Some things are better left unsaid....
2007-12-28 05:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren-Ash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to decide if you are the type of person that can handle casual sex. If you can sleep with him without expecting more, then go for it. You only live once and it's not like he's married. But know your place. You will be a jump off and therefore not entitled to dates, gifts, or even phone calls afterward.
2007-12-28 05:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by savvy_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could do it...ifyou truly know this is only about his looks. But honestly, think that she will be hurt because she doesn't know about this. You might not care now, but think if you are in that situation and your boyfriend would want to hit it with another woman. You'd be hurt huh? I used to act childish like that some time ago and now that I want a serious life with my boyfriend I am scared that things will be done to me the way I did them to other people in the past.
2007-12-28 05:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Diana 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way if he's willing to cheat on his girlfriend with you who's to say if you guys hook up he won't do the same to you? You have to look at all angles. Would you want some girl to sleep with your man knowing he had a girlfriend? Come on you answered your own question he has a girlfriend so leave him alone and find someone else.
2007-12-28 05:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by twistedtoad03 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it sounds like u already mentally made the decision to have sex with him based on his looks. just know that he doesnt want u for anything else and he most likely thinks very little of you since he already has a girlfriend. y would u be willing to step on her toes by cheating with her boyfriend, who she may love alot? even if she left him for u to take over...he will do the same to you, hes just a playboy...and u make this easy for him.
2007-12-28 05:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems kind of trampy to have sex with a guy you are not dating, who has a girl friend, and just wants a quick one on the side. What will you have a few days later when the booty call is just a memory and he is back with the gf, and possibly bragging about it to his guy friends?
2007-12-28 05:53:04 · answer #7 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should tell the guy to jus take it easy. I mean if he has a girlfriend and he cheats on her with you then if you two end up dating who's to say that he wont cheat on you too!!!
2007-12-28 05:51:19 · answer #8 · answered by Needs Mp3 player Help!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are special and you are not sure he is that special person you would like to bond with. I say no, not a good idea to go on looks alone. You need to know his character.
2007-12-28 05:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by NAN&JAN 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well point blank..it`s not right .
you said it urself he has a g/f ..
i mean do you want to be used?
i could understand that he`s probably really hot or whatever but you have to be able to respect yourself more than that.
2007-12-28 05:51:42 · answer #10 · answered by ale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋