Few weeks back I saw my neighbor who was secretly masturbating himself for more than an hour. He is too younger than me and he is not at all handsome, but his thoughts are coming always to me. Is it okay if I have a date with him? Am I in love with him?? because if he is too young and not handsome how can I get his thoughts in my mind always? I can't say if this is a crush or love pls help.
2007-12-28 05:45:46 · 14 answers · asked by Lisa H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Masturbating is normal, don't let it disturb you.
2007-12-28 05:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like curiosity more than a crush or love. If you are not attracted to him, then don't bother trying to go out on a date. Let it go. Guys do that sometimes and in most cases, we make sure that we can't be seen.
2007-12-28 13:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by Paul L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, i don't think its love. .since u saw him in the act. . it keeps replaying in your mind and some part of you is attracted to him though he isn't good looking. If you don't think he's attractive don't go on a date with him .. Do you think he has a crush on you. . and how is it that u saw him .. was he doing it deliberately so u can see him or was it by accident he had his window open while choking the chicken ??
2007-12-28 13:50:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dj Enigma 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you just liked the thought of him touching himself.perhaps it's some deep dark dirty side to you.You didn't mention how much younger he is.I think you were just turned on by the erotic idea of him masturbating.you can't be in love with someone who you just seen playing with themself...
2007-12-28 13:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by commanderx777 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you do not like him or anything. i dont even think you even have the slightest idea to go out with him, right?
i think you were just shocked or something like which makes you think about that moment. like if someone was beaten by a stranger, then they'll always have a flashback.
just try not think about it .
2007-12-28 13:53:05 · answer #5 · answered by ChIcKa MuUuUm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what he does bothers you talk to him about it, and you want to get to know him better ask him.
Otherwise let it drop and let him become a memory of the past
2007-12-28 13:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You're in love woith a guy who was masturbating himself?? I think you were just scared or scarred, either one...ewwww....he's younger and not hot whats the deal?
NO!
2007-12-28 13:50:33 · answer #7 · answered by catch me. 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well first u need to put his age and ur age then that could give us an idea of wat ur dealing with!!!! Okay if hes like 2 years youngerthan sure yeah go fo rit, and i think that u cant stop thinking about him cuz u saw him _______ and u want that to be u.
2007-12-28 13:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by crzychick101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are prob. just curious. There is nothing wrong to think like that. I would just look over it and carry on with my life. Just don't let him shake your hand. 0_0
2007-12-28 13:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow, I think you were just disturbed. Stop thinking about it.
2007-12-28 13:54:44 · answer #10 · answered by skittles77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋