has any1 got any? how were u brought to your correction? have any parents got any memories of spanking their offsprings?
2007-12-28 05:24:51 · 29 answers · asked by sweet surrender 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Well..i remember my brother getting spanked almost every night...I didn't get spanked as much because i was always afraid of it, and tried to be as good as i could to avoid it.
Basically the worse you were, the worse you would get it. Being kind of bad was a hand, a little bit worse than that a spatula, and really bad was the belt..I hated it...and i will never spank my kids.
2007-12-28 05:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Macy 4 · 5⤊ 3⤋
As children (3 sisters) we were raised to respect our parents, our things, and other people. Our parents gave us two warnings. If we were asked to do something, if we were mucking up, or fighting with each other, we were told to stop it, and that's "once".. If we didn't stop, we were told "that's twice". Third time, we got smacked and sent to our room. We had loving parents who to this day we all still adore. A smack on the butt did us no harm at all. In fact, we were better off for it because we rarely got smacked because we knew the consequences of what was coming after "that's twice"!! Kids these days have no discipline and just have a look around at the results of that.
2007-12-28 19:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by shaz m 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I did not get spanked much because I was good. My younger brother did, however. He was spanked in the living room, and I helped my parents. I would take off all of his clothes, and make him bend over the couch. He would get ten with the paddle. Then i would make him lay on the couch facing up, and then I would lift his legs, and he would would get fifteen with he belt. Then he would have to stay in the corner, and I would watch him in case he did something he wasn't supposed to while he was in the corner. Dad would leave his belt with me in case he did.
I think that was a bit extreme, but it worked. I was 14 and my brother was 8.
2007-12-29 00:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I was spanked as a kid, and I turned out fine. I do spank my kids, but it's not very often. As long as it's an open hand, and not a belt or something else then I think it's fine. But there is a line between a spanking and a beating. I don't think it's ok for any body to beat a child....ever!!
2007-12-28 13:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Crystal 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋
lets clear the air it's a difference between being spanked,being corrected ,and being abused. some parents should just spank because their child doesn't take heed to the verbal correction,some parents only have to verbally correct you and that's that, then some go a lil to far doing their child are children like they are an adult and it's not right. i use to get spankings and it was by my grandma because thats who raised me but it was for my good which i understood. and it has keep me out of alot of trouble til this day.
2007-12-28 13:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by onewithoneself 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sure, loads of memories of being spanked, or feeling emotional and physical hurt, feeling confused, and growing to fear my father so much that I would go into a panic when I knew he was on his way home from work.........
Needless to say, my children are not spanked so no memories to provide for you there.
2007-12-28 13:36:58 · answer #6 · answered by iamhis0 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
my parents spanked us and we turned out just fine. it's just a matter of parents setting boundaries- what deserves a spanking versus going to the room or no tv. and the parents need cool-off time between getting mad and spanking, otherwise it is easy to take the anger out on the child.
2007-12-28 13:44:49 · answer #7 · answered by Skiball 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, from time to time, but not so often also I visited over mom's knee for a good bare bottomed hand spanking. Today I have to say that it seems that my beloved ones listen me much beter when they are into this traditional position.
2007-12-30 01:13:08 · answer #8 · answered by Sanna . 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
i remember being hit with a garden fork by my mum once for telling her to shut up after she told someone how useless i was at looking after our horses when i was 13, had a job, went to school and done the daily horse duties and she couldnt be bothered to even work! apaprt from that i remember my dad hitting me for throwing a snowball at him and once for putting the phone down on someone when i was about 5.
ive smacked my daughter on the bum a couple times for being seriously naughty and i felt really really guilty afterwards but it was only after several verbal warning and everything she done she knew she shouldnt have done in the first place.
2007-12-30 12:28:37 · answer #9 · answered by bebishenron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was spanked a lot as a kid. When I did something wrong I got spanked HARD. It taught me what to do and what not to do.
2007-12-28 13:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by That Gay Guy for Da Ben Dan 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋