2007-12-28 05:16:45 · 13 answers · asked by ? 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i love catching my man off guard.. when he least expects it. he usually initiates so it's nice to surprise him sometimes
2007-12-28 05:26:41 · answer #1 · answered by Tanya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does feel good, but a man also likes for his woman to initiate things too. So at times I take it upon myself to start things off. He loves when I do that.
2007-12-28 13:22:12 · answer #2 · answered by Classy Lady 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think both should initiate "things", it shouldn't be left up to one party or the other all the time. The person always doing the initiating starts feeling like their partner only reacts out of obligation and not desire. It's flattering to know your partner wants you, by initiating "things" with you...it works both ways. Guys dig not having to start things all the time.
2007-12-28 13:20:43 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends...I'm a bit old fashioned in my beliefs when I think a man must make the first move when it comes to dating and the whole pursuit thing. Once you're settled in a relationship and we're talking physicality...both parties should initiate. It really REALLY hurts when it is one sided ...and face it..both men and women are human and we both have needs, so when it comes down to that aspect of things...it should be a collaborative effort.
-Sonya Kahn
2007-12-28 13:24:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Variety is nice. Sometimes the man can do it and sometimes the woman can. Lets both partners know that the other is into it, and not just going with the flow.
2007-12-28 13:21:50 · answer #5 · answered by Sausage Mahoney 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it feels good for the woman.
2007-12-28 13:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like it when my guy does cause it makes me feel wanted. Although I'm sure he wants me to iniate things more. But I'm fine with where we're at right now.
2007-12-28 13:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Sometimes I like having a women who will come after what she wants.
2007-12-28 13:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Things I like to initiate:
Sequence
Initials
Conversation
2007-12-28 13:20:21 · answer #9 · answered by tercellulite 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i don't like to initiate things ,,,, i totally love to relax and let mi man take control ....
but i guess he wants th same frm me ..so its kinda tuf to say
2007-12-28 13:43:19 · answer #10 · answered by stressed_out 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋