i am depressed, lonely with no real friends, and feeling really low at the moment in life. Ive had alot of downfalls in 2007 and the latest one is just breaking up with my ex girlfriend, it was rather complicated so i wouldnt like to go into detail. But when i hear shes going to a party etc. i suffer from the happiness she will get. And its been like this with all exs. I know a few friends who i know seem happy in life and comparing myself to them. I feel jealous and envy their happiness. Honestly i cant remember the last time i was really happy. Lifes been a real struggle for me and ive never been as happy as i want. I want to stop suffering from other peoples happiness because it seems to affect my way of life.
2007-12-28 04:06:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
you will never be happy as long as you rely on someone else to make you happy. it isn't possible, happiness, true happiness comes from inside, and if you don't access that happiness, no one outside yourself can make you happy. Once you do access that happiness, no one can make you unhappy. Stop looking outside yourself for happiness, it doesn't exist out there.
2007-12-28 04:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are many out here like you. I would check and and see if I was suffering from depression. This would cause a lot, or even all of this negativity. There are wonderful medications available now. I think I would seek professional help.
peace
2007-12-28 13:22:36 · answer #2 · answered by Linda B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really do not love her. Love is not a jealousy of others happiness, love enjoys others happiness as if of its own. Love loves only. You accepted that you want to come out of your present attitude, so whats the hitch, come out. You start loving other, others love, others happiness and enjoy it. Thats all, now you are out of your suffering
2007-12-29 05:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by papasays 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no one is going to make you happy...they can only add to your joy.
Do you expect her to not go on with her life?
She expects you to move on so why dont you.
You cant waste your life away by worrying about others.
Life is always going to have problems and trials. You have to get through them as we all do. happiness is a state of mind. You choose your life and the way you want to live it.
2007-12-28 12:13:18 · answer #4 · answered by freed1one 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋