Baby's Momma drama .... SHE WILL ALWAYS BE IN THE PICTURE?

Question

if a guy tells you .....

"yea i have a kid(s) but me and the baby's mom are not together anymore"

or

"yea she moved out. its just me & the kids. we're not together anymore. but we're still best of friends."

or

"i'm not with the baby's mom"

or anything else that indicates he is not with the mom of his child or children, THAT DOES NOT MEAN SHE IS NO LONER IN THE PICTURE.

She still comes around whenever she gets ready,
She still comes to spend her holidays with him & "the kids" & his family,
They still talk ALL THE TIME
He's still in her life
She's still in his life
They will ALWAYS HAVE A BOND = the child(ren)
He will always "be there" for her
He will always "protect" her (after all, that's the mother of his kids, right?) WHATEVER.
She will always "be there" for him
And she will always "protect" him (after all, that's her baby daddy, right?) WHATEVER.

They still f*ckin
She will always be in the picture

Get used to it or dont deal.
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Answer 1

So what is your question?? I mean, I have a baby daddy. He calls every now and then but we are not close friends anymore.....I don't even like answering the phone when it's him.

If the man has a baby mama and they are still friends... then they will always be close for the kids. If they don't talk then you probably don't have anything to worry about. The ONLY and I mean ONLY reason I haven't attacked my baby daddy is because he is trying to get into the military which will mean my baby is taken care of, but if he doesn't get into the military.... then when me and my bf get married, my bf will try to legally adopt my daughter or we will move, where the baby daddy can't find us. he dosn't pay the child support anyway....

so again.. what was your question?

Answer 2

the place's the question? it rather is purely a rant. Yeah, with the aid of fact the mummy of his babies she will continually be a area of his existence. even although, that doesn't propose they nevertheless have any romantic or sexual connection between them, or that they are nevertheless having intercourse. with the aid of fact the hot lady pal, you need to handle her presence, yet no longer sense threatened via it - she's previous, you are the present (and in all probability the destiny).

Answer 3

So you're saying fathers ALWAYS continue to have a close (even sexual?) relationships with the mothers of their children? That's just not true. I'd say even most of the time, the father can stay close to his children, while having minimal contact with the mother (sees her when picking up kids, at school functions, etc.)

I'm sorry that apparently you had a bad experience, but that doesn't make it always the case.